... Just got back from squishing more mini spiders.
Gah.
Sorry to hear that, Hil.
Well, it's just good to know that when the chips are down and things look grim you'll feed off the girl who loves you to save your own ass!
Xander ,'Chosen'
Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Pete, Husband of Jilli - Aug 06, 2008 7:00:18 pm PDT #83 of 10001
"I've got a gun! I've got a mother-flippin' gun!" - Moss, The IT Crowd
omnis_audis - Aug 06, 2008 7:02:06 pm PDT #84 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
I know how grad school can get, especially towards the end. Sleep is low & stress is high. A bad combo. If you can, maybe call it a night and get some rest.
{{{Hil}}}
sumi - Aug 06, 2008 7:03:01 pm PDT #85 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!
{{Hil}}
Hil R. - Aug 06, 2008 7:06:56 pm PDT #86 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I went to the beach a few days ago and felt really relaxed for a while after that. I guess the effect wore off.
JZ - Aug 06, 2008 7:10:46 pm PDT #87 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
Oh, Hil, I'm sorry. Such a huge achievement once it's done, but it seems like such a grinding misery getting there. I'm in such awe of anyone who even attempts it.
{{{meara}}} You've already gotten lots of great AD and talky meat advice, so I'm going to just point up at what everyone else said and nod. Plus, yeah, depression itself is brutal on your sex drive, and in the short term (if you even get that side effect at all, which you may not) it's much better to be feeling nonsexual but otherwise generally good than nonsexual and crushed by misery everywhere else too.
But, mostly, just {{{meara}}}. It's been a shitstorm of a year for you, and you don't deserve it and it can ease up any damn time now.
Lastly, it turns out that Matilda is still a total boo and Emmett has gotten seriously handsome.
Hil R. - Aug 06, 2008 7:10:48 pm PDT #88 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I'm about to start my sixth year of grad school. This is after four years of college, twelve years of school, one year of kindergarten, and three years of preschool. I have been in school for 25 years now. I think that's just way too much.
Strix - Aug 06, 2008 7:11:26 pm PDT #89 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Vacations are kinda like booze, that way.
billytea - Aug 06, 2008 7:42:47 pm PDT #90 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
(Particularly the ones that have evolved to drink tears.)
That is pretty cool, isn't it? Don't worry about the vampire moths, I'm sure your spiders will get them before they can approach you.
WindSparrow - Aug 06, 2008 7:59:38 pm PDT #91 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Just remember people - spiders are our friends; they eat scorpions.
When did Matilda get to be such a little girl? She was just a baby yesterday, I swear. Emmett, now him I get - in my mind he's half kid and half seasoned pro baseball player, and that photo of the two of them together captures a lot of what that means.
Java cat - Aug 06, 2008 8:22:24 pm PDT #92 of 10001
Not javachik
Timelies, night shift. (Ah, that takes me back. Are Angus and Moonlit ever seen around these parts? Also, memories of Gus.)
Boo, meara, so sorry about the job thing. About A/Ds, Wellbutrin is a dopamine-enhancer rather than SSRI, and apparently doesn't have some of the SSRI-type side effects (food/sex problems) as a result.