What should I do, then? Send her a gift? Sacrifice? … Unholy fruit basket?

Angel ,'Just Rewards (2)'


Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Strix - Oct 02, 2008 12:47:29 pm PDT #7308 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Hmm. I will ask my gyno about it. I don't think I've ever tried muscle relaxers that much. I don't mind loopy at night -- actually a combo of Ty-3 in the day so I can function and utter pain-free stupidity at night is a good deal.

I have to call her anyway to get poked and scanned and...jesus mary, I've had more things up my cooch in the last 6 months than a Thai hooker. I'm really kinda sick of it.


Barb - Oct 02, 2008 12:47:43 pm PDT #7309 of 10001
“Not dead yet!”

::envies those who can take pain pills::

I mean, I can take them, but only at night because they make me completely stupid. Actually, one Tylenol PM makes me completely stupid. It's a running joke. Flexoril is wonderful as a muscle relaxer, but I only take it very, very rarely since it has the disconcerting habit of making me very weepy and emotional for two days after.

One flexoril. It's pathetic.


juliana - Oct 02, 2008 1:13:44 pm PDT #7310 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I'm thinking about asking her to re-up the Vic. Sure, it made me itch, but that shit made me pain-free.

How do you react to Perc? I get spinny and itchy on the Vic, but Perc just makes me stoned as fuck. As Tep once said, "Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude."


Strix - Oct 02, 2008 1:15:29 pm PDT #7311 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I'll trade you, Barb. I've got a ginormous drug tolerance. (Thanks, college!)

I have to take 2 Ambien anymore for them to work, 5 tylenol for a regular headache...but those are all medications I've been taking for years.

My morphine pump after surgery looped me the hell out, which was great since I had a 7 inch gash stapled from hip to hip.

OTOH, if my delicate baby system has caffiene after 1 p.m., she can't sleep without a pill. Stupid legal drug sensitivty.


Pix - Oct 02, 2008 1:19:06 pm PDT #7312 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I'll trade you, Barb. I've got a ginormous drug tolerance.

I am Erin, though it varies by drug. Ambien knocks me out, but nothing else does. Most pain meds don't help me much. Morphine did very little for me during the ruptured cyst ER incident, and Vicoden barely touched the recovery pain.

I'm told there are other classes of pain meds that would probably work better, and I hope that's true if I ever need them again.


Strix - Oct 02, 2008 1:19:14 pm PDT #7313 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I've never taken Percocet. Does it just make you stoned, or does it affect pain? Vic has only made me itch a couple of times, but it makes me stoned AND is great with pain.

Ty-3...well, like I said...I've taken 4 within a 3 hour period (NPI) and still had back and cramping pain. And I feel like I could be sensible and drive and talk to people.

If it doesn't make me droolingly stupid, the painkiller isn't effective.


Strix - Oct 02, 2008 1:22:10 pm PDT #7314 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Kristen, did you just take the rec dosage? I always am prescribed the 1 pill, every 4-6 hours as needed, and I've learned to ignore it with certain pills and just take two, three if it's before bed.

But I'm always very cautious with new drugs. Which was a pain in the ass learning curve with this Ty-3, cause, dude...not so great.


juliana - Oct 02, 2008 1:22:31 pm PDT #7315 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I've never taken Percocet. Does it just make you stoned, or does it affect pain? Vic has only made me itch a couple of times, but it makes me stoned AND is great with pain.

Percocet's stil a -codone, it's just oxycodone insted of hydrocodone (Vicodin). For whatever reason, that formulation works better for me. (Vic makes me itchy, spinny, pukey, etc. No amount of pain-stoppage is worth that.)

(FWIW, and I would nevereverever advise this, I've stopped the worst of my pain by taking a Perc and having a shot of Fernet. Stopped that motherfucker in its TRACKS. Seriously, it was like an iron wall slamming down and the pain couldn't get through.)


ChiKat - Oct 02, 2008 1:24:27 pm PDT #7316 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

I refered to my students as ladies and gentlemen, and downgraded to boys and girls, to let them know they were acting immature.

I totally do that, too.

On the sir/ma'am thing, I was raised to say it and don't feel it's patronizing or fake or distancing to use. It's a polite thing often used in place of "excuse me?" or "pardon me?" I'll say "sir?" or "ma'am?"

I understand that those terms may seem fake or distancing to people not brought up around them, but they aren't that way to everyone. And, to my ear, I'd much rather hear "Ma'am?" than "What?"

My nieces/nephews are being brought up in the South, so they use those terms with adults including their parents, grandparents, aunts/uncles, etc.

I use it all the time with my students. "Here's your paper, ma'am." Or when I call on students I may just point and say, "Sir?"

My students don't even blink twice at it. And, I live in the midwest. It's not like I have students raised with it.

Also, I realize that using those terms is not a midwestern thing. That's why I don't require/ask/expect it of my students.

I do require and expect basic manners and respect. Not just to me or other adults, but to each other, too.


Laga - Oct 02, 2008 1:27:42 pm PDT #7317 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

to my ear, I'd much rather hear "Ma'am?" than "What?"

I say, "I'm sorry?"