Also, I was raised on military bases so I Sir and Ma'am people all the time.
They should film that story and show it every Christmas.
Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'
Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?
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DavidS - Oct 02, 2008 7:34:17 am PDT #7263 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
WindSparrow - Oct 02, 2008 7:43:52 am PDT #7264 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
As in "don't shoot me, or you get her for President" type of life insurance.
If that's the case, shouldn't she be a better choice for the Obama ticket? I mean, really.... The kind of people who really, really Do. Not. Want. Mr. McCain to be president are a whole lot less likely to vote with a semi-automatic weapon, than those who object to Mr. Obama's leadership.
Dear God, please keep Barak Obama safe. He's got little kids, and a wife who loves him. He's got work to do here, and I really think he isn't done doing it. Please.
vw bug - Oct 02, 2008 7:45:35 am PDT #7265 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
The kiddos in after care call me "Miss Val." This was my choice. The school would have preferred that I had them call me "Miss Winters," but I felt pretty strongly that it was important to put me in a different class than their teachers. The Miss indicates a level of respect, but the first name offers a little more freeness, which I feel fits with the position.
And, interestingly, I'm writing a paper about that very subject for my History of the English Language class--looking at how the kids style shift between the way they talk to their teachers, me, and their friends.
And, relatedly, we're doing a scavenger hunt this afternoon. I'm trying to figure out what the "prize" should be. I'm thinking of just having it be a new Mad Libs book, but I'm not sure the little kids will get as excited about that...
Toddson - Oct 02, 2008 7:48:01 am PDT #7266 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Just a quick chuckle.
ChiKat - Oct 02, 2008 7:51:59 am PDT #7267 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
I am for sure "Miss M---" at work. Like Erin, most of my Hispanic students just call me "Miss." Occassionally, they will call me "M&M" and if it's done respectfully, I'm okay with that, too, since it's a shortening of Miss M.
I will occassionally call my students "Miss ---" or "Mr. ----" to model good manners. I also call them "sir" and "ma'am" all the time just to model good manners. And, it sometimes masks the fact that I can't always remember their names! (What?? I have 500 students in a year. Seriously.)
Trudy Booth - Oct 02, 2008 7:54:48 am PDT #7268 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
When I moved to North Florida at the age of eight I managed to piss off my third grade teacher FOREVER by not calling her M'am my first day in class.
Mrs. W.: Trudy, you can take your seat now, fourth back in the third row.
Trudy: Thank you
Mrs. W.: Thank you what ?
Trudy: Thank you... very much?
She flipped. And I seriously spent all of third grade (and no other grade ever, mind you) being considered a "discipline problem". It was incredible and a little terrifying. Once I whispered in class and was physically dragged by my arm to the principal's office where I was literally thrown into a chair and screamed at by the two of them. I received an extensive lecture about how I was an unruly child because my Mother didn't paddle me. (Oh, they were right pissed that she'd told them they couldn't.)
When I returned North my teachers started or gave an embarassed laugh when I said Sir and M'am.
So my thoughts on the whole "Sir/M'am" thing are a bit... intense. It's a nice enough custom but that's all it is -- its not actual respect.
My Grandmother went on to teach in that county for a 20+ years. That particular teacher and principal were widely regarded as incompetent. As teachers were hard to find and the Principal was married to a big shot (seriously, she was a political appointee -- weird) however, they both had their jobs until retirement.
omnis_audis - Oct 02, 2008 7:57:33 am PDT #7269 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Dear God, please keep Barak Obama safe. He's got little kids, and a wife who loves him. He's got work to do here, and I really think he isn't done doing it. Please.I have those same thoughts, but can't bring myself to write them out. I mean, I now live in DALLAS. I want him to visit, but then I think back to an incident 40 years ago or so, and think "no! Stay away! Don't tempt the gods!" Not that there is some kind of Dallas magnet for that type of thing. Bush has been here loads of times, right?
ChiKat - Oct 02, 2008 7:58:32 am PDT #7270 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
Oh, I don't require, ask, or even expect my students to call me "ma'am." I just give them the courtesy.
Trudy Booth - Oct 02, 2008 8:00:05 am PDT #7271 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
Oh, I don't require, ask, or even expect my students to call me "ma'am." I just give them the courtesy.
I think as a teacher, particularly of teenagers, I'd want a certain formality as the default. Then when you drop it that actually means something.
Stephanie - Oct 02, 2008 8:12:11 am PDT #7272 of 10001
Trust my rage
OMG, some general in Miami is "extremely interested" in having Joe come work for him. I can not take three more years of year round hot!! But I feel like a shitty wife for putting my weather concerns over more substantive career stuff. Still, Florida is full of hurricanes and my in-laws! And there is no fall or winter to make up for it.