I just need her to come out of this.
I need her to come back, and I don't know if it's going to happen. I feel like it's not.
Well, look at you. All dressed up in big sister's clothes.
Faith ,'End of Days'
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Sean K - Sep 29, 2008 6:09:41 pm PDT #7004 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Pix - Sep 29, 2008 6:20:21 pm PDT #7005 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.
Oh honey. I know that none of us can tell you it's all going to be okay, but I wish we could. All I can tell you is that you are not alone, no matter what happens, and we will be here for you throughout. Please take care of yourself. Please don't try to do this alone. Please, please, please keep checking in and keep talking so we know you are still here. I am so worried about you (in case I haven't mentioned it). I'm concerned that this sustained level of trauma could lead to PTSD (and I'm serious about this, not using hyperbole). I don't know what else to do for you except to keep saying we're here and urging you to be good to our beloved Sean.
beth b - Sep 29, 2008 6:23:06 pm PDT #7006 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
I wish I could tell you something you do could change the outcome. This is her fight.Honestly, if she does know you are there for her -- when you are physically there for her doesn't matter. Because you are there, even when you aren't sitting next to her.
DavidS - Sep 29, 2008 6:59:59 pm PDT #7007 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
I need her to come back, and I don't know if it's going to happen. I feel like it's not.
As beth notes, you're not the difference in her getting better. You feel guilty. You broke up with her. She needs help. You care for her.
But you're not going to be the difference in whether she comes out of this or not. It is not under your control. It is not your responsibility even.
So quit pushing yourself to the edge physically and emotionally.
Because you're not helping her. And you're definitely hurting yourself.
Be there for her when it matters. Let the doctors and nurses do their job.
sj - Sep 29, 2008 7:03:08 pm PDT #7008 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Hec is wise.
ION, I hate the insomnia fairy. She's visiting again, and I thought I made it clear to her last time that she was not welcome.
DCJensen - Sep 29, 2008 7:05:29 pm PDT #7009 of 10001
All is well that ends in pizza.
Skipping and skimming tonight.
I guess I would have to propose one should spend a good amount of time on Youtube watching Grammar Rock classics.
Of course, I do that anyway....
WindSparrow - Sep 29, 2008 7:14:48 pm PDT #7010 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
connie, good luck on the grammar test and the rest of the interview process.
{{{{{{Sean}}}}}
Pix - Sep 29, 2008 7:25:24 pm PDT #7011 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.
In meme news, not that it in any ways compares to the crap others are dealing with, I am getting a cold. I'm sniffly and sneezy and all the other dwarves, too.
Trudy Booth - Sep 29, 2008 7:30:15 pm PDT #7012 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
I just need her to come out of this.
I need her to come back, and I don't know if it's going to happen. I feel like it's not.
I know, Baby. You also need some rest. Nothing is likely to make anything any better right now, but get some rest.
meara - Sep 29, 2008 8:17:32 pm PDT #7013 of 10001
I hear ya Kristin--I'm coughing like a deep bellowing coughing thing. Not sniffling, but loud and annoying nonetheless. And worried this'll hang on for weeks and weeks. Hrmph. DO NOT WANT!