Bunch of wanna blessed-bes. Nowadays every girl with a henna tattoo and a spice rack thinks she's a sister to the dark ones.

Willow ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?  

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vw bug - Sep 06, 2008 4:44:47 am PDT #4631 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Hanna's hitting us today. Stay dry and safe everyone!


Nora Deirdre - Sep 06, 2008 5:00:09 am PDT #4632 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Tom didn't get the job he interviewed for on Wednesday, and he's feeling blue. He has gained some weight which he hates, he's stressed about being unemployed, he's taking the rejections more and more personally and he's losing confidence. Poor noodle. And today is his birthday. and it's supposed to be biblical weather.


brenda m - Sep 06, 2008 5:06:56 am PDT #4633 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Aw. Have a good birthday, Tom. I know you'll find something soon that fits you just right and doesn't put you through the stress you've been under.


Laura - Sep 06, 2008 5:09:08 am PDT #4634 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Birthday wishes for Tom. Sorry it has been a rough week for him. I hope he is able to enjoy his day.

There is about 10 loads of laundry awaiting me. I've been putting it off way too long. Normally laundry is a pleasant enough chore, but it is hot and sticky in my utility room and I don't wanna do it.


Barb - Sep 06, 2008 5:12:53 am PDT #4635 of 10001
“Not dead yet!”

Birthday wishes for Tom that the coming year brings the perfect job and lots of happiness. (What am I saying? He's got Nora-- happies are inevitable.)


WindSparrow - Sep 06, 2008 5:13:47 am PDT #4636 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Encouragement~ma to Tom. Hope he can put aside the gloom and enjoy his birthday.


JenP - Sep 06, 2008 5:14:05 am PDT #4637 of 10001

Well, that's no good. I'm sorry, Tom. I hope the birthday is a good day for you.


Frankenbuddha - Sep 06, 2008 5:25:00 am PDT #4638 of 10001
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

And today is his birthday.

Sorry to hear the interviewing is getting him down, but Birthday Happies to Tom.

and it's supposed to be biblical weather.

NOT looking forward to this. However, I'm taking some small comfort that the forecasters have a tendency to make everything sound biblical these days.


brenda m - Sep 06, 2008 5:35:13 am PDT #4639 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Speaking of interviewing, we've been trying to hire on a new person (two actually) for some months now. We had originally posted the job back in maybe January or February and starting doing some screenings and interviews. We ended up deciding to hire at a more junior position instead, but then resumed the search for the senior position early this summer.

Some of the people we've been seeing are people we started inteviewing way back in February who are still looking. (One of them actually took another job and got laid off again in the interim.) Of our finalists, one was currently employed, and all the rest have been out of work for at least six months.

It's fucking scary out there. And god, you really feel for these people. I've been there, for sure.

We're finally making someone an offer on Monday. (Someone who nearly put herself out of the running with the frequency of her phone calls, emails, additional writing samples, "why you should hire me" powerpoints - not kidding - etc.) And aside from desperately needing someone in the first place, I will be so fucking glad to not be feeling like I'm stomping people down and like, crushing their hopes every time an interview doesn't go great.

(Eep. Does that sound like I'm saying "you know, it's hard on the other side too." Because no, not remotely. But it's been an unexpectedly emotional process for me watching good people walk out and knowing we're not going to be hiring them, and especially when I can't help identifying them with really good people like Tom and David and meara who are having such a tough time of it.)


Frankenbuddha - Sep 06, 2008 5:40:29 am PDT #4640 of 10001
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

In weather news, Mother Nature is being a tease - it's starting to get a little sunny out. No fair!