Seriously? I can change it due to marriage??? DOOD!
Yes, generally marriage is a "qualifying event".
You know what the chain of command is? It's the chain I go get and beat you with until you understand who's in ruttin' command here.
Jayne ,'The Train Job'
Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Miracleman - Aug 20, 2008 11:01:32 am PDT #2442 of 10001
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020
beth b - Aug 20, 2008 11:01:51 am PDT #2443 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
happy birthday Fay
Miracleman - Aug 20, 2008 11:02:43 am PDT #2444 of 10001
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020
Gah, crap, forgot to post it earlier:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, FAY!
Burrell - Aug 20, 2008 11:03:07 am PDT #2445 of 10001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Oh yes, happy birthday to Fay and congratulations to GC!
Glamcookie - Aug 20, 2008 11:13:56 am PDT #2446 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
So marriage is a reason to change, but it says to "add your spouse." What if my spouse is already my dependent (my co. covers domestic partners)? I wonder if that'll fly...
Good point, Burrell. They may not cover it either way.
Aims - Aug 20, 2008 11:16:45 am PDT #2447 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Talk to HR and ask. They'll tell ya what is and isn't covered and if you need to change L's status to Wife.
smonster - Aug 20, 2008 11:41:58 am PDT #2448 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
::snorgles juliana::
You do know your ringtone on my phone is Shakira, yes?
Hee. I think I'd forgotten.
Sean, I'm so glad you've find a place, and that you can move soon.
WindSparrow, aw... I didn't realize your father wasn't alive. Even better, then.
A la primera persona - Gorgeous song. Spanish is so tantalizing to me... I can understand a lot of the cognates, and then it turns into garble.
Para que tu no llores - I'd already listened to this one when you first mentioned it. He's lost weight since the video w/ Shakira, y?
While we're sharing songs in languages other than English, here's one of my fave French pop songs of all time. Corrida by Francis Cabrel It's about a bullfight from the point of view of the bull - heartbreaking. "I never thought you could have so much fun around a tomb." The actual song starts at about 3:15.
He also has one called Un samedi soir sur la terre (A Saturday night on Earth), about your average boy-girl hookup. "It's not worth specifying where they're from, or what they say/It's a children's story, ordinary/It's just a Saturday night on Earth."
I need to see if iTunes has those.
smonster - Aug 20, 2008 11:51:51 am PDT #2449 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
~ma, Calli! Call us if you need anything. Are you going down there tonight?
Glamcookie - Aug 20, 2008 11:52:42 am PDT #2450 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
~ma to your dad, Calli.
Calli - Aug 20, 2008 11:55:43 am PDT #2451 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Thanks, y'all. Right now I'm waiting to find out what's going on. The emergency room nurse said they had a ton of tests to run before they'd have any idea what's going on. Around 6:30 or so I'll know if I'll be rushing over there tonight or going tomorrow.