quick, MM, I need a flaming cow for work.

Okay.

Duck.

Doesn't matter. Am in a different city. Fire away.

Dear Self: You cannot start out an email with "Dear Dickhead," even if the situation described, which has already been escalated to "we need a meeting to discuss this and other items that should be developed that I've pointed out to people", is entirely that person's fault. Just. Can't.

Self: ok. Though he really deserves it. ... What about "Dear PEBKAC,"?

Sox, in those situations I usually resort to just "Hi,"

I usually resort to just "Hi,"

... but that's what you said to me yesterday!

hmm.

Okay.

Duck.

Doesn't matter. Am in a different city. Fire away.

Information I could have used before pressing the "Launch Cow" button.

So, uh...sorry. And...duck.

Information I could have used before pressing the "Launch Cow" button.

BWAH. That is so exactly what happens when I request vengeance demon. I get it all over me.

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Hi everyone! Interesting discussion you are all having. Fwiw, I am on the preferring "women" to "lady" side of the conversation, in all aspects of sports. I've always hated the "Lady Vols" title because it does feel so demeaning. The word "lady" is so loaded with cultural expectations and condescension, especially when it's linked to sports. That said, I know Omnis really well and know he would never intentionally use terminology demeaningly. I think it's really difficult to re-learn how to talk about women when you've been raised by a misogynistic parent, and I'm always so impressed with his willingness not to be defensive when someone calls him out, but to genuinely seek to understand. I have told him this lovingly in the past when I've had to smack him upside the head about something else. ;-) (The emoticon was a necessary evil for that statement. Apologies.)

In unrelated news, Vortex, I meant to say in my last epic post that I really hope you get the job you were looking into. It sounds like it might be perfect. Good luck!

I've skimmed most of the last 200 posts, so I'm sorry if I've missed anything else. I did see the conversation about body image demons, and it made me want to give everyone a big hug and tell them how beautiful you all are. I'm so impressed with Teppy and Erin and anyone else who has worked so hard to re-frame their self-image in order to be comfortable and happy in their bodies. It's such a difficult thing to do. I hesitate to say anything else about my personal size and weight, but I will add on to Jessica's (I think it was you?) comment that she can't afford to gain weight if she wants clothes to go to work. Oh GODS do I empathize with that. It's not that I mind horribly when I go up a size or two, which I've done over the years, but I hate hate HATE not having clothes that fit properly. Nothing makes me feel uglier than wearing clothes that are too small, but I just can't afford to keep going out and replacing my wardrobe. I honestly think that at least a third of my current credit card debt is left over from having to buy new clothes for work when my weight fluctuates. ARGH.

Anyway, I finished my scuba final exam last night and the last of my pool training for the second level of certification (PADI Open Water Diver) this morning. In just over an hour, I'll be heading over to Grand Cayman to do my final two open water dives. Whee! Cozumel has the reputation of being one of the most beautiful dive sites in the world, but sadly the hurricane awhile back devastated the reef. There's barely any color there right now, and it will take hundreds of years to recover. I enjoyed my dives there yesterday (and saw moray eels, and a skate, and tons of pretty fish and plants), but I hear that Grand Cayman is downright beautiful.

Cass, I had forgotten that you dive! Maybe someday we can dive together! (Without sharks. I have a feeling I may see some today. I hope in that case that I, too, will discover that it is possible to recover from a panic attack under water.)

Have you ever heard the saying, "Ladies don't sweat, they glisten"? Sweating is far too vulgar a bodily function for a proper lady to indulge in.

Horses sweat. Men perspire. Women glow. (or women "feel the heat" in my mother's version of this saying)

Day three of orientation. While I will not have to work 12-14 hours today, I do have to go right from work to my co-worker's father's wake in VA, so I won't get home until 9 or 10 tonight. Zzzz.

Quick question: how does this sound for Tom to send to folks at a job he interviewd at more than a month ago? (he hasn't sent anything except a follow up thank you email within a week of the interview)

I hope your summers are going well, despite all the rain. I just wanted to follow up on my interview with you and your colleagues on July 11. I was wondering if the position is still open, and if so, let you know that I am still interested. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to assist you from this end, and I wish you luck in your search for developers.