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Natter 60: Gone In 60 Seconds  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Cashmere - Aug 08, 2008 12:48:36 am PDT #1719 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

I'm waiting to board my plane to San Francisco. Also enjoying a breakfast of a diet coke and a twix bar.

I have relatives who "collect" vehicles like that, Allyson.Sorry yopur parking lot's a junkyard.

Noah and Grace have killed me ded this morning.


Nilly - Aug 08, 2008 1:04:16 am PDT #1720 of 10003
Swouncing

Waking up at 3:30 am and not being able to go back to sleep

Oy.

Is there anything fun and relaxing you can do until there's light and actual morning? Maybe not sleep, but at least something else that's nice?

Oh, Shir, I'm sorry you have to deal with such a not-nice person (with his own annoying brand of Humpty-Dumpty, to top it all). No good suggestions other than the good old schoolyard "ignore him, he doesn't deserve your energy and rage", but nothing, you knoe, constructive or actually helpful, though. Sorry.

Cashmere, have a safe flight.


Shir - Aug 08, 2008 1:10:45 am PDT #1721 of 10003
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

No good suggestions other than the good old schoolyard "ignore him, he doesn't deserve your energy and rage", though

I can't. I have to work with him, answering him, etc.. It's a good thing we're not sharing an office, and I have the time to take deep breath before replying.

Hey, that time waster link, with the dancer? I'm so right brained, even when I'm trying to see it the other way around, I can't.


Nilly - Aug 08, 2008 1:18:23 am PDT #1722 of 10003
Swouncing

I can't. I have to work with him, answering him, etc..

I didn't phrase myself properly, sorry. I was trying to say that sometimes the easiest thing is just to ignore his tone, be as straight-to-the-point as possible, and - oh, so much easier said than done - not let him get to you.

Hmm, can you have a special file in which you can write all the things you *want* to tell him, but restrain yourself? This way at least you'll have some way to vent, and not keep things boiled up inside?

(Also, what are you doing, working on the weekend? I've got a deadline next week, what's your excuse?)


Shir - Aug 08, 2008 1:33:41 am PDT #1723 of 10003
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I was trying to say that sometimes the easiest thing is just to ignore his tone, be as straight-to-the-point as possible, and - oh, so much easier said than done - not let him get to you

I can't. It feels like he's disrespecting me. Knowing that he's not making it bearable.

can you have a special file in which you can write all the things you *want* to tell him, but restrain yourself?

It's not that bad. The good thing about my rage? It's gone within 15 seconds.

Also, what are you doing, working on the weekend? I've got a deadline next week, what's your excuse?

I'm gonna visit my grandfather in Rehovot in an hour and a half. Don't have anything better to do until then, and I feel a little bit behind.


Nilly - Aug 08, 2008 1:43:14 am PDT #1724 of 10003
Swouncing

It feels like he's disrespecting me

Does he talk like that to other people? Then it's not that he's disrespecting *you*, but rather that for him, this tone doesn't mean disrespect?

(It's so hard to differentiate between an act, and what stands behind it, isn't it? But I tend to think that as long as you're not 100% sure what's the intent behind the act, it's better to deal with just the act itself, not the possible-maybe-personal-interpretation behind it.)


Calli - Aug 08, 2008 1:50:50 am PDT #1725 of 10003
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Is there anything fun and relaxing you can do until there's light and actual morning? Maybe not sleep, but at least something else that's nice?

Well, there's Natter.

I don't really feel bad at the moment. There's just knowing that around 3 pm at work I'm gonna feel like I took a brick to the back of my head weighing on my mind. But tomorrow I can sleep in, so it'll all work out.

And the guy just doesn't know how to write "I don't agree with you" in not insulting way.

Yeah, this sort of thing is a pain in the ass to deal with—sorry.


Shir - Aug 08, 2008 1:52:20 am PDT #1726 of 10003
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Humm, where's the post I've just sent?

Edit: ohwellnevermind


Nilly - Aug 08, 2008 2:15:01 am PDT #1727 of 10003
Swouncing

There's just knowing that around 3 pm at work I'm gonna feel like I took a brick to the back of my head weighing on my mind. But tomorrow I can sleep in, so it'll all work out.

Oy. Then again, if it has to happen, at least it'll be with a proper timing, before the weekend, right?

Humm, where's the post I've just sent?

Have you tried looking under the sofa? [Edit: x-post, of course.]

Sorry.


Sue - Aug 08, 2008 2:28:59 am PDT #1728 of 10003
hip deep in pie

Hi Nilly, Shir, Calli. I am up too early.

I can understand why NBC wants to show the opening ceremonies in Prime Time, but why do the people on Today have to pretend it's not happening now?