My whole problem with the class article is that the woman profiled seems to think it's all based on economics, ignoring environment, education, and culture. I get why it could be helpful at a local level for teaching and understanding your students, but her genralizations leave a lot out. For example, I would think most poor/working-class immigrants would not fit into her analysis of food preparation at all.
I think her work is more about people (in this case teachers) not assuming that
their
assumptions are the
only
assumptions. She then gives them wide examples of other assumptions they could be encountering with their pupils and discusses how to work with them.
I don't think its supposed to be a comprehensive analysis of class and every possible permutaion. And I don't think she means for the information to be used as "if X person is Y class they are making all the assumptions on this list" so much as "you have now encountered a person of a different class background than yourself. y'all have different expectations of 'normal'. there are things you may wish/have to teach them that you'd have never expected".
It seems that a lot of people work on the assumption that money/things=class. It irks me, because it does leave out the issues of education, manners, etc. I've seen things where some lout in a Mercedes is presented as being upper class, while a college professor on a bicycle isn't. I grew up being taught that it was tacky to flaunt money and things, that you bought "quality" and kept it forever. I think it may stem from an old-fashioned sense of priorities, whereas these days going broke to buy status symbols is seen as the thing to do.
I grew up being taught that it was tacky to flaunt money and things, that you bought "quality" and kept it forever.
This is the key difference between old money and new money.
When I was living on the Eastern Shore I bought an old Oriental carpet from the professor of archeology. He apologized for the condition because it looks worn (which is why it was so affordable) and I was like: Why would I want a carpet that looks new? I want it to look like it's been in my family forever. 'Cause I'm an old money snob, even if I don't have any.
I was so stunned the first time I went by Phillips as a kid and saw all the kids there were dressed like bums. I was like, "I thought they were rich!" My mother was like, yeah, that's how rich kids dress.
I went by Phillips as a kid
Jesse, your old money is showing. I'm assuming Andover, not Exeter.
I'm an old money snob, even if I don't have any.
This is so me it's not even funny.
(You hear that, universe? Our car has 200K+ on it because we are
that
awesome!)
Jesse, your old money is showing. I'm assuming Andover, not Exeter.
Please. Of course.
Actually, it's just my Massachusetts upbringing -- My mother worked in Andover for most of my childhood, so I didn't know there was another PA for a long time. I have mostly only heard of the prep schools on that list via proximity -- I went to summer camp in Groton, etc.
And, in my family, tacky was one of the worst things you could say about someone (trashy was worse, but that had to be earned).