You walk in worlds the others can't begin to imagine.

Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 59: Dominate Your Face!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jul 27, 2008 5:03:40 pm PDT #9806 of 10003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Although, in his NYTimes obit, his widow said he didn't. But he sure talked about them a lot!


Jesse - Jul 27, 2008 5:14:04 pm PDT #9807 of 10003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

And just because I'm feeling reminiscent, my real old-man Philadelphia idol was always Ed Bacon.


megan walker - Jul 27, 2008 5:15:36 pm PDT #9808 of 10003
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Hah! He prepped at St. Paul's. That explains so much. I think that place only aggravated my sister's issues.


DavidS - Jul 27, 2008 5:37:53 pm PDT #9809 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

In other news, I got a haircut this afternoon!

Surely the gods of Google will smile on this.


msbelle - Jul 27, 2008 5:48:22 pm PDT #9810 of 10003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

wow, this has been blast from the past week on facebook for me. 1 good friend from college I lost touch with. my roommate from a pre-college program I went to when I was 17 and lost touch with her soon after college. Another friend from college that I never kept up with afterwards. I expect highschool people to start popping up at anytime. crazy.

ANd there must have been some shift in my head in last few months, because I swear one of my first thoughts for the guys is: I wonder if he's single. Who is this person in my head?!??


Cashmere - Jul 27, 2008 6:12:38 pm PDT #9811 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

But, you know, he thinks it's too little, too late.

Sounds like it's too late for HIM. He doesn't deserve you busting your ass to do this symposium. I hope you manage to find something great and he realizes what he's about to lose.

Sorry about the computer troubles, Nilly!

In the meantime, I have to make myself stop thinking about *this* part, and get back to the other million parts I'm behind on. It's just so hard to stop thinking about that nagging thing that wouldn't work, you know?

I totally understand this.

Yay Team Emmett! Good luck!


beth b - Jul 27, 2008 6:20:19 pm PDT #9812 of 10003
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm not really sure what your boss was really expecting of you, Allyson. Part of it sounds like he had certain expectations that he didn't know he had.

The good thing is , you know your boss isn't crazy. Some things he says makes sense -- other like expecting you to know everything involved in a symposium , don't. Learn what you can from this.

My BIL went through something similar with a boss -- someone that he had worked with for years.But the last time was just horrible. He decided that L had certain expectations just because they worked together for so long, and that it was ok to be less than reasonable. The good news, my BIL after years away from boss guy might be going back to work with him. The time apart gave BIL some experience that should help him deal with old boss -- and this is a position that has a little distance. So leaving can be good not just for you and your job, but may even make it possible to renegotiate your relationship


flea - Jul 27, 2008 6:47:48 pm PDT #9813 of 10003
information libertarian

Megan, do you mind saying what school you grew up at? My mother taught at Choate. I know of the fac brat.


megan walker - Jul 27, 2008 6:53:58 pm PDT #9814 of 10003
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Ah, Choate. The big bust happened in my prep school years. Fond memories of everyone freaking out at that one. I was at Suffield Academy.

ETA: And wiki tells me, it is the 25th most expensive boarding school in the United States. That is whack. It's not that good.


flea - Jul 27, 2008 7:03:39 pm PDT #9815 of 10003
information libertarian

My mother didn't start until 1986, so we missed the bust. I don't even think I heard about it until much later. My mother taught English and we lived in a boys' dorm the whole time I was at home (8th-12th grade).