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Mal ,'War Stories'


Natter 59: Dominate Your Face!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - Jul 27, 2008 1:10:20 pm PDT #9731 of 10003
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Yes, albeit is correct. However, did you mean percentage? Or is precentage correct in this usage?


Sophia Brooks - Jul 27, 2008 1:10:35 pm PDT #9732 of 10003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I was reading this article [link] about a woman who gives lectures on class and came across this quote:

She had already explained why rich people don’t eat casseroles, why poor people hang their pictures high up on the wall, why middle-class people pretend to like people they can’t stand.

I am confused by the poor* people with the picture high on the wall-- because I am poor and I always hung my pictures low because I didn't know the rule about hanging things at eye level.

  • for values of poor that don't seem to exist now- working class, I guess.


Nilly - Jul 27, 2008 1:12:46 pm PDT #9733 of 10003
Swouncing

However, did you mean percentage? Or is precentage correct in this usage?

Thanks! I didn't spell-check yet, and now you saved me that, as well! The hivemind is the best.


Sophia Brooks - Jul 27, 2008 1:13:57 pm PDT #9734 of 10003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I think KHepburn's annoying character is part of what makes the movie so darn funny. Plus leopards and Cary Grant in a frilly bathrobe!


msbelle - Jul 27, 2008 1:16:54 pm PDT #9735 of 10003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

God I just want to smack her. And I have to keep explaining to mac that yes, is lying about things and tricking people and no nothing she is doing is very nice.


Theodosia - Jul 27, 2008 1:47:32 pm PDT #9736 of 10003
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I think msbelle's put her finger on why I've been unable to watch more than a few minutes of Bringing Up Baby despite it being a classic and all famous and like that.


Allyson - Jul 27, 2008 1:55:33 pm PDT #9737 of 10003
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Wow, that article just punched me in the gut. I have class issues all the time. I'm the first person in my family to graduate college. My parents were the first to own their own home. My grandmother and grandfather on my dad's side were were raised by people who had starved. My mother grew up in poverty.

I'm the only one in my family to sort of transcend the class thing by getting a book published and having casual conversations with nobel laureates and people who have emmys on their mantels.

There's a straddling disconnect, and it is awfully weird. I never shared with them that I was writing a book until I had an agent and it just about sold, because I just couldn't find a way to explain it to them. Even when i did, my mother immediately became suspicious and wondered how much I was paying "this woman" to sell something I wrote, because obviously, I was being taken.

ION, I have to have a meeting with my boss on Monday about the future of my job, which is bleak. I go from very calm, to angry, to sad in five minute cycles.

Tim said there's no way this situation isn't going to be traumatic, but it isn't tragic, and yes, I will panic about money. And yes, I will yell and cry for days about it. But in the end, he says, I can find another job quickly and I won't be homeless or starving. Maybe uncomfortable. But I'll work it out. And then he said my children's book is made of gold, and this is what I'm supposed to be doing.

I'm still scared, my hands are still shaking. And I'm hoping that after this meeting I will still have a job through the holiday season, because it's going to be impossible to find one in mid-October, when this symposium is over.

That's what I have to work out. If I left now, I could find a job much easier than I could if I left after the symposium. But I'm committed to the symposium, it's nine weeks away.

I'm just really scared, you guys.


meara - Jul 27, 2008 2:02:38 pm PDT #9738 of 10003

That's what I have to work out. If I left now, I could find a job much easier than I could if I left after the symposium. But I'm committed to the symposium, it's nine weeks away.

...if they're trying to screw you over, why should you care? Do what's best for you.

Seriously.

Look for a job now. If you get offered something, it might have taken a few weeks and you could maybe set the start date for after the symposium.

But you have worked there for many years, and if they are being assholes to you now for no good reason, there is no good reason for you to handicap yourself in finding a job out of some misplaced loyalty.

IJS.


Theodosia - Jul 27, 2008 2:04:55 pm PDT #9739 of 10003
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I think it's completely normal and expected to be scared in this situation, Allyson! If anything, you should be complimented on how well you're holding up, seriously.


brenda m - Jul 27, 2008 2:06:23 pm PDT #9740 of 10003
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I'd start looking now, Allyson. Yes, it would be great for them to have you around through the symposium. But it would be great for you to still be employed. Your needs totally trump theirs right now.