Giles, help! He's going to scold me!

Buffy ,'Never Leave Me'


Natter 59: Dominate Your Face!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Theodosia - Jul 16, 2008 12:54:44 pm PDT #8202 of 10003
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

IIRC, it's Capital-H Host if it's Catholic, because of the transubstantiation requiring the honorific.

Especially because some of my nearest and dearest are Catholic, I've tried to get some education about the RC, and I've come away with more respect than dismay, (though I can run you down a long list of stuff I don't agree with). Then again, with my low-Church Presby formative experiences, I may just be swayed by the candles and kneeling and incense and nice decorations.


JZ - Jul 16, 2008 12:55:06 pm PDT #8203 of 10003
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

The church needs to get on that.

Except that the church leadership, practically since the death of the pope who shepherded through all the Vatican II reforms, has been just the kind of ingrown social conservatives who are happy to let people like the League speak for them and not terribly eager to disabuse anyone of the notion that Donohue and his ilk are The Church.

So then, unfortunately, it falls on the laity to bitch about it and tell him to STFU, and since most of us are less media-whorishconnected than Donohue, it doesn't always work out so well.


Theodosia - Jul 16, 2008 12:56:32 pm PDT #8204 of 10003
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Voice of the Faithful should step up to the mike then.


Strega - Jul 16, 2008 1:01:05 pm PDT #8205 of 10003

Oh, I doubt she claimed to be from the diocese. I think a local news station misidentified her and it's gotten repeated each time the story gets recycled.

Also this

S&M Barbie Lashed By Public
is a genius headline.


brenda m - Jul 16, 2008 1:10:20 pm PDT #8206 of 10003
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Especially because some of my nearest and dearest are Catholic, I've tried to get some education about the RC, and I've come away with more respect than dismay, (though I can run you down a long list of stuff I don't agree with).

In case I was sounding snippy earlier...

I don't disagree, on a broad level anyway. But I have a huge issue with the idea that "disrespect" of a powerful institution is a matter for anything stronger than eyerolling in response. If I come off like I'm smacking at individual believers, it's not intentional.

But I'm incredibly leery of the notion that religious institutions ought somehow to be immune from disrespect. Which is not to say they should be disrespected. But I don't see any reason they shouldn't suck it up like the rest of us.

I put this in a bucket with the "War on Christmas", "how come white people can't say the N-word" and the NiceGuy / Men's Rights Association types - it all does seem very eyerolly and foolish, but it's insidious and I think it's doing us real damage.


Trudy Booth - Jul 16, 2008 1:17:44 pm PDT #8207 of 10003
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I put this in a bucket with the "War on Christmas", "how come white people can't say the N-word" and the NiceGuy / Men's Rights Association types - it all does seem very eyerolly and foolish, but it's insidious and I think it's doing us real damage.

At the very least it shows a basic lack of comprehension on what it means to be in actual jeopardy.


Burrell - Jul 16, 2008 1:18:01 pm PDT #8208 of 10003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I'm so sorry Drew, peace to your family.


meara - Jul 16, 2008 1:20:02 pm PDT #8209 of 10003

Eh, I do think that the hatefulness inherent in the act of spiriting this away makes it kinda more criminal. Do I think it's a hate crime? Probably not.

Do I think the idea of hate crimes is overused? Probably. Do I say this as a member of a group that is often included in hate crimes legislation, and whose interest groups often lobby for hate crimes legislations? Yes.

But at the same time, when someone can be murdered not just in a random bar fight, but strung up, and "made an example" not to maybe seem gay in the bar? When a schoolkid is beat up not just to silence them, but as a warning to any other classmates who might cross gender barriers? When crosses are burnt on my lawn not just to scare me, but my fellow mosque- or temple-goers? That's not just impacting the person the crime happens to. And I can really see an argument for some punishment that doesn't just say "burning a cross on the lawn did $400 in damage, so that's the same as if you had spraypainted "GONZO WAS HERE" on their door, and done $400 in damage". Because clearly, not the same.


Daisy Jane - Jul 16, 2008 1:25:38 pm PDT #8210 of 10003
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I am brenda.

Not het up about this at all though, because I found this to get all het up over [link]

You will pry my birth control from my cold, dead hands.


shrift - Jul 16, 2008 1:35:58 pm PDT #8211 of 10003
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I now have: pre-interview paperwork, ten million hoops to jump through, a schedule conflict giving me angst, and the extreme desire to flip out like a mammal.