Shir, I would try and rinse it out. Do you have eyedrops?

I'm so sorry, Sue.

The family believed my dad had native roots because of the inability for the family to trace out of northern NY and Canada no matter how far back they searched. That and his physical appearance. Hard to say. No one to ask.

Shir, pull your top eyelid down so it overlaps the bottom one and blink several times. That should dislodge the eyelash.

Actually, there's also a factual basis for this. Mixed-race Indian men had very strong incentives to marry "down" the racial hierarchy -- that is, to marry a darker-complected mixed-race woman, or a black or Indian woman. Whereas mixed-race women could be "saved" or "civilized" by marriage up the hierarchy.

And then there's the practical consideration that in areas that were from a European perspective "frontier," you were going to have more white men than white women, so it's not surprising that a lot of those surplus white men married or at least slept with Indian women.

where a person gets to claim all the privileges of whiteness, while also claiming the drama, excitingness, and "authenticity" of an oppressed minority.

This is something I actually wrestle with a bit, since DH and Annabel are legally Cherokee but are mostly white. DH checks both white and Native American on census forms and such, and when we buy a house next year (if the good Lord's willing and the creek don't rise) we're going to go through a program for first-time N.A. home buyers. But I only feel right about taking advantage of their legal and technical Indian status as long as it's not taking anything away from anyone else--e.g. if that loan program were only available to a set number of people per year instead of to anyone who qualifies, I wouldn't want to use it.

Is anyone else being denied gmail access right now?

Pico~ma, Sue.

I've never been sure what's responsibile for the appearance that there's one native American accent, and that it spreads into Canada too.

The same forces at work that make us think there's only two English accents - BBC and Cockney?

I think the native American accent of which you speak (and indigenous Canadian too) is more likely to be a cadence.

What's the difference between an accent and a cadence? Because there is a clear difference between Inuit and Athabascan accent/cadence - I have to place my tongue in different places to imitate them.

(Disclaimer: I'm a white girl, but it seems that not all my ancestors were. Those that weren't were, in fact, female. No princesses, however. Everyone was dirt poor and rural.)

This is my family story, as well.

My mother only in the last few years admitted that her maternal grandfather was Mi'kmaq. But Nfld. Mi'kmaq never had status, except for one small band, and there was a lot of internarrying between the French and Irish and natives in Nfld. so I would be surprised if that's the only native relation I have.

(Disclaimer: I'm a white girl, but it seems that not all my ancestors were. Those that weren't were, in fact, female. No princesses, however. Everyone was dirt poor and rural.)

Ditto for me, except white boy. But I have actually seen the photograph of my grandfather's native american grandmother. Really! And yeah, dirt poor and rural.

Oh Sue, I'm sorry. ease-ma for Pico.

Mixed-race Indian men had very strong incentives to marry "down" the racial hierarchy

Very strong incentive is a very strong euphemism. How about "on pointed pain of death" for a less strong one?

The same forces at work that make us think there's only two English accents - BBC and Cockney?

Yeah, but Native Americans are here. Are you saying the accents are driven by the direction and aren't the accents of the people playing the roles?

My mother only in the last few years admitted that her maternal grandfather was Mi'kmaq. But Nfld. Mi'kmaq never had status, except for one small band, and there was a lot of internarrying between the French and Irish and natives in Nfld. so I would be surprised if that's the only native relation I have.

We could be related! There was apparently a reasonable amount between the Scottish in the PEI/NS area, as well, so my grandfather had a fair percentage of Mi'kmaq.

Really, when this was mentioned by a reliable source, it explained A LOT about some weird family dynamics with my Dad's sister (darkest hair, eyes, and skin of the three kids, often assumed to be of mixed blood) and (blonde hair, blue-eyed, raised by her married very much down the class ladder English mother) Gram. And possibly why Gram made no effort to remain in contact with my grandfather's family.