If every vampire who said he was at the crucifixion was actually there, it would have been like Woodstock.

Spike ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 59: Dominate Your Face!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Jun 13, 2008 1:22:01 pm PDT #3097 of 10003
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Ah. Yeah, I get that. I believe I put my mother through a fair amount of similar crap myself. And for the most part ended up regretting the times she let me get away with it.

In news of me:

Very weirdly up and down day. Supposed to be an easy one where I might actually get caught up on the 90,000 outstanding things I have to do because we've been so fucking overloaded the past few months. Not so. Like three things suddenly became critical and I haven't even looked at the stuff I had on for today.

Also, I had a project this week that was just so fucked up. Largely, but not entirely for reasons outside of my control. But then at the very end some stupid fuck ups with submitting the project to the client that were in my control and I didn't manage the way I should have. Feh. And that's not even counting the five minutes of horror when I convinced myself I had submitted a proposal with one of the fees off by several hundred thousand dollars. I didn't, but I damn well could have the way I've been functioning. One of the big problems only came to light this morning, so not a great way to start off the day.

So then my manager asks if I'm free to talk at a certain time today. Ugh. Was expecting a come-to-Jesus, which it was in way, though not how I anticipated. The person I actually report to and who I work most closely with is leaving. And I'm moving on up in the hierarchy as a Team Lead. Yay? I'm going to have direct reports. I don't want direct reports! And meetings, more meetings. (No word on money, more money.)

So while it wasn't the call I was expecting, it still means I'm going to have to get my shit together.

Now I'm on the porch drinking a Guiness. And waiting for the call to pick up the dog from her (badly needed) day at the groomers. And watching a big storm roll in.

Bets on the chances I'll be walking the dog home from her $100 grooming in the pouring rain?


aurelia - Jun 13, 2008 1:27:26 pm PDT #3098 of 10003
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

And I just saw a report on the news about the Iowa flooding stating that it's not even once in a century type of flooding, but once in 500 years kind of flooding.

Evacuations along the Cedar River go beyond the 500 year plan.

Hec, good luck.


meara - Jun 13, 2008 1:27:53 pm PDT #3099 of 10003

cause I wasn't sure if she was pregnant. She hadn't said anything and I just sort of stated what was obvious to me. Luckily (?) she was pregnant so I hadn't misjudged

Oohh, yeah, that could've been bad.

Good luck with the teenager/toddler conundrum, David. Does not sound like fun to me. Eep.


tommyrot - Jun 13, 2008 1:28:03 pm PDT #3100 of 10003
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Bets on the chances I'll be walking the dog home from her $100 grooming in the pouring rain?

I dunno - the clouds make it look like it's gonna pour any minute, but there's nothing on radar heading towards us.


Kat - Jun 13, 2008 1:28:30 pm PDT #3101 of 10003
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Go brenda! more money is good. more meetings, nsm. But I hope the more money makes up for the more meetings.


Lee - Jun 13, 2008 1:30:31 pm PDT #3102 of 10003
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Weekend-- cleaning and errands tonight and tomorrow, plus more of my Angel rewatch, then Sunday head to Vegas for two days.


brenda m - Jun 13, 2008 1:34:42 pm PDT #3103 of 10003
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Well, I don't know yet if there's more money.

There's no question that, career-wise, this is a good thing. Stamina-wise could be another question.

Actually, not even that. It's a comfort-zone violation I'm struggling with. As in, I'm being pushed out of mine. I'll get over it and be happy then.

Tom, yeah, it feels like rain, but it is looking bluer in the west. So maybe not. (And it wouldn't matter, really - people comment on her coat for months after she goes to this guy, so a good dousing ain't gonna hurt her.)


msbelle - Jun 13, 2008 1:44:14 pm PDT #3104 of 10003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

We are starting to get piles of paper sent home from school. Lots of mac's writing work came home today. Some reads exactly like LOLs.

Today his therapy went from all play therapy to the beginning of some talk, but still mostly play and poor noodle is scared. He was beside himself for the therapist to have me in the room and say the words "sometimes things are hard at home".


Jesse - Jun 13, 2008 1:44:42 pm PDT #3105 of 10003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Insist on more money, brenda. It's a new job with more responsibility.

Good luck, David.

Edit: Ooh, good luck you too, msbelle.

Kids are hard.


Kathy A - Jun 13, 2008 1:48:24 pm PDT #3106 of 10003
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Good luck to both of the little men having problems (and their parents, too!).

It looks like it's clearing up out here in Wheeling, so I wouldn't worry too much about the clouds.

I'm debating if I want to order pad thai and spring rolls for dinner tonight, or if I'll just settle for some spaghetti after I wash the pot out to boil noodles. I'm leaning towards Thai just because I haven't had any in a long time. Of course, I could order beef pilaf from the Uzbek place--hmm, that's a thought...