I find dudes in flip-flops sexy, so, different strokes. It looks cazh.

I also have an old-fashioned dislike of obscene t-shirts. I swear myself, but that's to a specific audience. The "Go Fuck Yourself" or whatever shirts one can see always make me think about the poor grandmothers who will be truly bothered by seeing it while walking down the street.

t /get off my lawn with your damn slogans

I feel weird wearing flipflops in public. They're my house shoes! I understand I may be peculiar in this habit, however, I still judge the people who wear them to work here. schmeck schmeck schmeck schmeck schmeck schmeck

Yeah, absolutely. And going back to the theater thing, sure I'd wear jeans to a $15 Off-Off-Broadway show, but only with a nice top and good shoes!

I rarely get dressed up for the theatre. I think it comes from years of working in it, where, even on opening night, I was in blacks.

I feel weird wearing flipflops in public. They're my house shoes! I understand I may be peculiar in this habit, however, I still judge the people who wear them to work here. schmeck schmeck schmeck schmeck schmeck schmeck

As my sister once said when she was living on Florida. "You have every right to wear a thong bikini in public, but don't think you won't be judged on it when you're sitting across from my desk the next day asking for a job."

I am anti-flipflop. I just don't like them. Yes, I know, this pushes me out of the "charmingly antique" category and into the "crazy person" one, but I can't get past my irrational dislike of them.

I also have an old-fashioned dislike of obscene t-shirts. I swear myself, but that's to a specific audience.

Oh, those drive me bugfuck!insane! I don't even like those FCUK shirts. The stupidity and self-congratulatory edgy fake-obscenity (often as not bedazzled with Swarovski crystals, for crap's sake) gets up my nose even more than the actually obscene shirts. But only barely.

I am anti-flipflop. I just don't like them. Yes, I know, this pushes me out of the "charmingly antique" category and into the "crazy person" one, but I can't get past my irrational dislike of them.

Maybe it's because they are what you wear not to catch anything in public showers? I only wear them if I'm coming from getting a pedicure.

In traveling, going to the theater, and so on, I'm sometimes put off by what people think is appropriate to wear. For flying, I'll wear cotton pants and a cotton shirt and carry a sweater. I usually wear sneakers, but that's because I have my arch supports in them.

But! even just running to the grocery, my clothes are usually clean. Not torn. Not obviously dirty.

I think everyone's stopped dressing up for things, which is kind of a shame. I've seen people at the Kennedy Center in ratty shorts, t-shirt (or wifebeater), and flip-flops. And, usually, grubby feet. Is it really that much of an effort to put on clean clothes, ones that are nicer than what you'd wear to wash your car or clean the gutters?

And one thing I've noticed, when people bring in pictures of their kids at their proms - they have no idea how to deal with being dressed up. It's like there's one time a year when they get all fixed up, and the rest of the time, it's grubbies.

An old friend is putting college photos up on Facebook. Here is me 15 years ago (in holey jeans, just to remain on topic): [link]

God I have gotten old.