Anybody want to play armchair psychiatrist? Or let me vent?
I'm irrationally/justifiably irritated with BFF. She's moving to L.A. with the douchebag-which is whatever...congrats on the job, but I hate that she's moving with him. She pretty much talks like she's making rational decisions like waiting until douche has been 6 months sober (it's been less than 2), not moving with him, but on her own (they are going to share an apartment), after 3 months she'll get her own place (she's told our other friend that they will get another place together). It's not really lying because I don't really have a stake, but it feels really shifty and shady, and quite frankly, makes me feel like we aren't BFF.
Then there's other things, like kinda cutting us out, drifting away from us. The Freudian slippage about replacing us in a year. Saying she'd come to a going away HH for her, and then dropping it because she's decided to leave in 2 weeks instead of 3. We're still scheduling a going away dinner during the week, but I feel really unenthusiastic about it. Like, a bit hostile even.