Um, this begs the question, how do you have that done by accident?

The lady who speaks very little english says "You want Brazilian?" and I say "Um, yeah" and she proceeds to take it ALL off, when I wanted to leave a "landing strip" type area? Because apparently her definition was different than mine.

That's happened to me, too, meara. Gotta be VERY specific BEFORE they start spreading the wax!

Everything is clenching at that thought.

all my Brazilian friends were so offended that Brazilian=hairless here.

It will look nice next to our "My cat is smarter than your honor student" bumper sticker.

except here it reads "My black and tan coonhound is smarter than your honor student". I just haven't been able to even think about getting another cat since having to put Anne to sleep 1.5 years ago. Anne-girl and I had been together for 16 years.

I trim for swimsuit season. I've never been inclined to shave or wax for myself, and there hasn't been someone else in a position to have an opinion on my pubic hair for quite a while. I'd probably try it once, if asked.

Unrelated, except for the obvious pun, much kittie health~ma to Laga. And Trudy, I hope they work out some good pain management for your mother.

I remember being fairly appalled when I was skimming one of the other MTV young adult novels (it was a series I nicknamed "Judith Krantz for the teen set") and the male lead was hooking up with a girl for a one nighter and he bluntly said he liked being given oral, but wouldn't return the favor unless she had a Brazilian or at the very least, only a landing strip.

And I'm sitting there thinking, "Wonderful-- teen girls are reading this and thinking they've got to be waxed within an inch of their lives if they ever want to get head, but they'll still be expected to go down a guy, regardless."

What I loved best about it was that it was a guy who wrote these books, under a female pseudonym. I wanted to absolutely smack the shit out of him.

And I'm Cuban, which equals not only hairy, but in my case, hairy and coarse, which makes growing back hideous. So yeah, bikini waxes, but beyond that, nope.

I tried shaving it all off once. I went to a pool party where we went skinny-dipping and the next thing I knew I was being lifted up out of the water for someone to take a picture. I decided that was the last time I was going to do that. Of course, this was back in the early 80s when it was quite a novelty. And the person taking the picture? One of the wives! Freaky.

I only shave my legs below my knees, and then only about once a month. Wish I never started. Back in the day when I wore skimpy bikinis I shaved minimally. I got hair. Never had a man that had a problem with that.

My opinion on personal grooming is that it needs to fit into my 5-minutes shaving in the shower routine or it ain't never gonna happen on a regular basis. Luckily for me I'm hairless enough that 5 minutes can pretty much take care of it. I think it was here at b.org that I learned shaving can take significantly longer than that for some people, bit of an eye opener for me. I finally understood that for some women waxing might actually be a time saver.