You should take pictures. And any time you are going to take pictures you should (a) look nice but (b) look comfortable. Is there a way for her to do both?
Nice trousers for her? Would she wear fancypants???
Angel: Yeah, I never told anyone about this, but I-I liked your poems. Spike: You like Barry Manilow.
'Hell Bound'
Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
meara - Jul 10, 2008 9:46:45 am PDT #6595 of 10001
amych - Jul 10, 2008 9:54:36 am PDT #6596 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
It's absolutely not silly to dress however makes you happiest.
Beverly - Jul 10, 2008 10:06:09 am PDT #6597 of 10001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
I wore a new dress and DH wore a shirt, tie, and sports jacket when we eloped. It was a symbolic sort of thing. There was a 24 hour waiting period, so an hour before our appointment, we stopped at a gas station rest room and changed.
I've seen several courthouse weddings, and they've run the gamut, from a white business suit with froufy corsage on one shoulder to a long blue cotton print skirt, borrowed bracelets, new t-shirt and old leather jacket on the bride, and everything from a suit to slacks or jeans with a button-down shirt for the groom.
I'd say whatever makes you both happy, just shined up a little.
Miracleman - Jul 10, 2008 10:20:30 am PDT #6598 of 10001
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020
So.
I'm, uh...I'm MCing the Masquerade at a local sci-fi convention in October.
Huh.
Vortex - Jul 10, 2008 10:21:29 am PDT #6599 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
However, she doesn't own anything else and anything she buys will likely be a one-time use thing. What do people usually do? Totally casual or nicer?
I say dress. It's your wedding. Besides, everyone should have at least one "dress up" outfit.
Frankenbuddha - Jul 10, 2008 10:38:28 am PDT #6600 of 10001
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"
I'm, uh...I'm MCing the Masquerade at a local sci-fi convention in October.
In stripey tights and a candy bra?
Glamcookie - Jul 10, 2008 10:40:56 am PDT #6601 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Thanks for the input. Yeah, I think I"m gonna make her buy a nice outfit. Jeans are just not right. I'm going to buy a dress for the occasion, but not a "wedding" dress. Just a nice dress that makes me feel pretty.
lisah - Jul 10, 2008 10:42:42 am PDT #6602 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate
Just a nice dress that makes me feel pretty.
You are always pretty so that should be easy! hee! Can't wait to see the pictures!!!
Glamcookie - Jul 10, 2008 10:45:29 am PDT #6603 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Just so you all don't think DF is totally insane, her point is that we are really only doing this for political purposes (getting married has never been a huge dealie for us) and we've been "married" for many years at this point. Still making her dress nice though.
juliana - Jul 10, 2008 10:46:29 am PDT #6604 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Just a nice dress that makes me feel pretty.
Can we get video of you singing "I feel pretty, oh so pretty, I feel pretty and witty and gay! And I pity any girl who isn't me today."??
Because I would pay ONE MEEEEEEELLION DOLLARS for that.