On my seventh birthday, I wanted a toy fire truck, and I didn't get it, and you were real nice about it, and then the house next door burnt down, and then real firetrucks came, and for years I thought you set the fire for me. And if you did, you can tell me!

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 07, 2008 4:59:18 pm PDT #6110 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Tee Hee! One case of homebrew, one case of beer exchanged for money at the beer store. Damn, my husband makes REALLY GOOD BEER.

Oh!

t makes many high pitched inarticulate noises of happiness and joy for GC and her DF

Is good to be back! OK, I have to go to bed now that I have caught up with Bitches and LJ.

Hopefully will have time to interact more tomorrow.


vw bug - Jul 07, 2008 5:00:44 pm PDT #6111 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Auntie has her evil laugh going right now: [link]


billytea - Jul 07, 2008 5:10:54 pm PDT #6112 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

So, in the unexpected news file, I got an email. Bec's eight months' pregnant. Not sure how to react to that. (Happy for her, obviously.)


Pix - Jul 07, 2008 5:23:51 pm PDT #6113 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

THIS. IS. AWESOME.
Worth repeating.
Wow, it really is. It sounds similar to the last time I was on Deer Isle (one of my dad's friends grew up there and owns a cute little cabin on the bay). Books, bed, beer. Mmm, yeah.

BT, you have every right to feel a bit weird about it, I think. I know I would. You can be happy for her and still not quite know what else you're feeling.


Kathy A - Jul 07, 2008 5:28:38 pm PDT #6114 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

I've heard of Deer Isle, Maine! It's one of the two towns featured in Ken Burns Civil War miniseries as an example of how the war affected hometowns across both sides of the conflict.


Lee - Jul 07, 2008 5:32:05 pm PDT #6115 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

That's where Nora was!

(I hope that's okay to have said, Nora)


P.M. Marc - Jul 07, 2008 5:37:20 pm PDT #6116 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Ah, Billytea, I am happy for her, sad for you, sad for what might have been? If that makes any sense.


amych - Jul 07, 2008 5:38:36 pm PDT #6117 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

It makes perfect sense, at least in the "what I couldn't quite figure out how to say" sense.

eta: BT, I'm also insanely happy for the life you have now. But that doesn't preclude ambivalence.


JZ - Jul 07, 2008 5:39:04 pm PDT #6118 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

bt, Kristin is wise here (wise often and in various other places as well, of course):

BT, you have every right to feel a bit weird about it, I think. I know I would. You can be happy for her and still not quite know what else you're feeling.

And this is a good safe place to feel you don't quite know what.

And now I must take Matilda away to get her ready for bed. She spent the last two hours tearing around all over the place and now she's sagging in my lap and about to drop her mango lassi (added to her love list: mango lassi and paneer; the saag, even very mild, was a little spicy for her).


Hil R. - Jul 07, 2008 6:04:44 pm PDT #6119 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

BT, you have every right to feel a bit weird about it, I think. I know I would. You can be happy for her and still not quite know what else you're feeling.

Yes, this.

Argh. On another board, people are talking about the new recommendations for cholesterol drugs for kids, and there have been 20 posts so far, and every post other than mine has been along the lines of "If parents would just quit being lazy and start feeding their kids decent food, the cholesterol problems would go away." Need to punch something.