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Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - Jul 06, 2008 7:18:24 am PDT #5974 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

VW & CBD sitting in a tree... Yippee for whirlwind. Couldn't happen to a nicer gal!

Fay, sounds exciting. Hope ya get some movie work out of it. That would be cool.

Omnis, do you mean tchotchke?
YES! I spelled it completely wrong. Shocker, huh? Considering I only know NYC Yiddish words, and most probably in slightly wrong context. I'm not going to change it, lest it make you look foolish for giving me the same spelling ;)

Many of my friends joke about the darn maid not doing her job and what do we pay her for anyway??? (they, of course, do not have a maid)
I've never had one. But will when I move to Dallas. The complex I am moving to has a group discount service, like $42 a visit or something! I was thinking about it. But now, seeing the state of this place now, I'm TOTALLY going to do it. My god, I missed the lesson on dusting. And the Long Beach (port) dust, extra ick. Not grey, buy black and gritty. Eeeew.

OK, time to weed out clothes. Final purge stage I think. Cross your fingers it stays cool again. It doesn't sound like it will.


Vortex - Jul 06, 2008 9:15:11 am PDT #5975 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Oddly, I may actually be hiring someone (a friend of a friend) to clean, soon...we'll see...what do people think the going rate for cleaning is, anyway? I think she's selling herself short. Not, I suppose, that that's a bad thing for me. And I suppose if she has a couple hour minimum, depending on how often I had her come (probably not more than every couple weeks), it'd be fine. I've never hired someone, but I think it'd be good, but weird. But possibly necessary. And suspect it would help keep me *tidy*, as well as clean.

Here in DC, I paid $50 every other week for her to dust, clean the floors, and the kitchen and bathroom. It was good because it forced me to tidy up every two weeks.


megan walker - Jul 06, 2008 9:19:58 am PDT #5976 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

We pay a ridiculous amount here ($150 a visit), mostly because my housemate wanted to use a service that didn't exploit its workers. However, they are awesome.


beth b - Jul 06, 2008 9:28:39 am PDT #5977 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

DH keeps saying we should have a gardener -- but that is what I like doing. I say extra money = house cleaner. and 2x a month is usually cheaper than 1 a month


sj - Jul 06, 2008 10:01:09 am PDT #5978 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yay, one month, vw!

We're in the car, headed home. Sigh.


meara - Jul 06, 2008 10:14:30 am PDT #5979 of 10001

Huh. Sounds like maybe she is charging a reasonable amount then--she said $20/hr if I supply the cleaning products. (especially since she's not working for a service or anything, and it's under the table). Now if I only could've arranged it so we'd had this conversation earlier, and I could've got her in here before my friend was coming to stay with me tonight. Doh.

Has anyone watched White Noise 2? The trailer was on Knocked Up and the Fillion/Sackhoff combo is hard to resist.

I've never even heard of it!! But the adorable coziness of smonster and amyth living together sounds AWESOME!

I met him four weeks ago today

Oh my goodness! That is rather whirlwind!

Good luck with the extra-ness, Fay!!


Vortex - Jul 06, 2008 10:33:30 am PDT #5980 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

We pay a ridiculous amount here ($150 a visit), mostly because my housemate wanted to use a service that didn't exploit its workers.

Exactly. My housekeeper was independent, she kept everything. I considered her an independent contractor, so taxes and such were her responsibility. she didn't make enough money for me to do an I-9, so it was all above board.

Huh. Sounds like maybe she is charging a reasonable amount then--she said $20/hr if I supply the cleaning products.

that sounds about right. if you're going to hire her on a regular basis, you might want to think about going flat rate, though.


Glamcookie - Jul 06, 2008 10:35:45 am PDT #5981 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

We have someone come in twice a month and it's $85/visit. OMG worth every penny.


Cashmere - Jul 06, 2008 10:42:14 am PDT #5982 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Oddly, I may actually be hiring someone (a friend of a friend) to clean, soon...we'll see...what do people think the going rate for cleaning is, anyway? I think she's selling herself short. Not, I suppose, that that's a bad thing for me. And I suppose if she has a couple hour minimum, depending on how often I had her come (probably not more than every couple weeks), it'd be fine. I've never hired someone, but I think it'd be good, but weird. But possibly necessary. And suspect it would help keep me *tidy*, as well as clean.

Here in DC, I paid $50 every other week for her to dust, clean the floors, and the kitchen and bathroom. It was good because it forced me to tidy up every two weeks.

Exactly. My housekeeper was independent, she kept everything. I considered her an independent contractor, so taxes and such were her responsibility. she didn't make enough money for me to do an I-9, so it was all above board.

This is my situation, too. I love my cleaning person and she's been extremely reliable and does great work. She quoted me a flat rate, handles her own insurance and taxes. She likes the flexibility the work gives her and I'm happy to pay for what she does. I am glad that it forces me to pick up everything and put it away before she comes in so she can do the heavy cleaning jobs that I really can't get to on a regular basis.

{{{Teppy}}} I don't trust your employers to not fuck you over further. I worked for a non-profit who used the amorphous benchmarks to set someone up for a firing and I left shortly after that. Seriously, watch your back. And send out resumes.

Aims, Olivia got about ten compliments on her wardrobe this weekend.


Trudy Booth - Jul 06, 2008 11:28:48 am PDT #5983 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

The roomies and I are getting someone once a month for three hours. We figure the $20 each is worth it for peace on earth.