It's Plei day!! Happy Plei day!
Note to self: religion freaky.
Buffy ,'Never Leave Me'
Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
amych - Jun 19, 2008 3:10:08 am PDT #4066 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
Volans - Jun 19, 2008 3:40:32 am PDT #4067 of 10001
move out and draw fire
Plei Day Happies!
Steph L. - Jun 19, 2008 3:56:49 am PDT #4068 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Salon tipping etiquette: I know that if the owner is performing the waxing/haircut/whatever, you don't tip.
What do you do when the owner is also your friend? She's still the owner, and therefore I wouldn't normally tip. And then, it seems weird to give a friend a monetary gratuity.
Tip: yes/no? Bring her a shell ashtray from vacation?
Toddson - Jun 19, 2008 4:01:15 am PDT #4069 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Steph, I tipped, FWIW (when I was having my hair cut by the owner). I figure everyone needs money.
Steph L. - Jun 19, 2008 4:17:15 am PDT #4070 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I just don't know if it's tacky to tip one's friend.
Toddson - Jun 19, 2008 4:21:25 am PDT #4071 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Maybe a gift card? they seem less, um, crass than cash, but still spend-able.
Aims - Jun 19, 2008 4:22:55 am PDT #4072 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Steph, my friend isn't the owner of her salon, but I still tip her.
Sparky1 - Jun 19, 2008 4:25:03 am PDT #4073 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
Steph, I'd stick with the rule about not tipping owners, if that's what you'd do if she wasn't a friend, and bring her the tchotchke.
tiggy - Jun 19, 2008 4:55:11 am PDT #4074 of 10001
I do believe in killing the messenger, you know why? Because it sends a message. ~ Damon Salvatore
But it's on the opposite side of where the pain is, so I haz a confusion.
Steph, for whatever it's worth, back in '04 i had surgery for large cysts and endometriosis. they completely removed my ovary on the right side and while they couldn't find any "normal" tissue on the left, the doctor didn't want to give me a full hystorectomy at 25. so she cauterized the left one and hoped for the best. to this day, when i ovulate or whatever i still have pain on that right side and there's nothing there!
hey, bitches! i think i've decided this thread is a better fit for me over natter, but i'm going to attempt to keep up in both. i've just read through about 1300 posts in here. read. not skimmed, not skipped. read. heh.
Sparky1 - Jun 19, 2008 5:02:46 am PDT #4075 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
i've just read through about 1300 posts in here.
::impressed::
Now tell us we're pretty & smart!