Dawn: I think a date should be in a real fancy restaurant, then champagne at a night club with a floor show, then ballroom dancing. Joyce: Unfortunately, we're not dating in a movie from the thirties.

'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Stephanie - Jun 05, 2008 12:30:44 pm PDT #2062 of 10001
Trust my rage

Aims, all our trips to the dentist have been highly traumatic for all of us - Ellie has had two fillings that keep coming out. Each visit has entailed a parent holding her down while she screamed and cried.

I'm not sure why I'm sharing this (maybe to warn you)- I hope Em's visit goes much better. I think a non-filling visit/cleaning would have been way less stressful. The upside to all this trauma is that Ellie willingly brushes her teeth when asked.

I guess the whole thing reminds me of the first time they needed a urine sample from Ellie. I had no idea how they would do it and was rather surprised.


omnis_audis - Jun 05, 2008 12:48:58 pm PDT #2063 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Ugg. Stupid work. Just got this note from old employer benefits person:

Your medical does end at the end of this month. I really don’t know what drugs I was taking yesterday.
Ugg. Well, looks like one month of COBRA after all.

:: slump ::


megan walker - Jun 05, 2008 1:07:15 pm PDT #2064 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

That sucks omnis. Well, at least it's not more than that. When I was unemployed and had to do COBRA, it was equal to about half my monthly checks.


Hil R. - Jun 05, 2008 1:20:12 pm PDT #2065 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Ugh, omnis. At least it's only one month.

I've got two things I'm supposed to go to this weekend. A barbecue with friends on Saturday, and a meetup with internet vegans on Sunday. I'm not sure I have two days worth of social. I guess I'll see how I'm feeling after Saturday.


flea - Jun 05, 2008 1:38:58 pm PDT #2066 of 10001
information libertarian

Evelyn has had one visit to the dentist, around her 4th birthday. (I know, bad mama.) It was fine - the hygenist talked to her first and explained stuff, she got to pick a pair of sparkly pink sunglasses to wear in the chair because of the light, made no complaints about the cleaning, and got a toy plus a toothbrush afterwards. If your practice has someone who is used to kids and this is just a cleaning, it should be fine. If you want to hedge your bets by packing the sparkly sunglasses (which our practice provided) so much the better!


§ ita § - Jun 05, 2008 1:40:36 pm PDT #2067 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

If you don't need to use insurance during any insurance gap, you don't need to spend any money on COBRA. Check the cost of your prescriptions and see.


omnis_audis - Jun 05, 2008 1:55:24 pm PDT #2068 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

omnis, email me if you need any help identifying neighborhoods or whatever.
Daisy Jane, insent.

If you don't need to use insurance during any insurance gap, you don't need to spend any money on COBRA. Check the cost of your prescriptions and see.
Thankfully I have no prescriptions. But, if my gallbladder acts up, or I get another nasty blockage or some such, I do not want to be without insurance. Tomorrow I have my exit interview with the head of the benefits folks. Hopefully she will have a better sense of it all.


brenda m - Jun 05, 2008 1:58:18 pm PDT #2069 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Thankfully I have no prescriptions. But, if my gallbladder acts up, or I get another nasty blockage or some such, I do not want to be without insurance.

If that happens, you can elect COBRA retroactively, as long as you're within a certain time period. My memory of the last time I did this is that you have 58 days. Make sure to ask about this specifically with the benefits people tomorrow - no sense paying premiums if you don't have to.


megan walker - Jun 05, 2008 2:13:18 pm PDT #2070 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

If that happens, you can elect COBRA retroactively, as long as you're within a certain time period. My memory of the last time I did this is that you have 58 days. Make sure to ask about this specifically with the benefits people tomorrow - no sense paying premiums if you don't have to.

It's actually the later of whatever the time period is and when you were notified of this time period. because of NYU's slow bureaucracy I had almost 4 months to make the decision. Which was a good thing because I found out I needed my surgery after I left NYU.


NoiseDesign - Jun 05, 2008 2:26:27 pm PDT #2071 of 10001
Our wings are not tired

Has anyone seen my motivation?