All I can say is that I'm very sorry for setting off anyone else's issues. It wasn't my intent, I had no idea I was doing it until this came up today, and I will be more careful in the future.

but I'm not able to find anything that makes me think Susan thinks she's better than us

Better than *us*? No.

Buffistas are, on average, smarter than your average bear and better writers and we're well represented by several wonderful published authors.

Better than many others who are published? Yes.

That's how Susan's posts read to me. Every drabble relates to the WiP directly. Every time. And she seems to need to be published as a form of validation. There never seems to be writing for the joy of writing or writing because she needs to tell a story. It feel like writing to be published. And nothing less is acceptable.

I feel like I've been waiting to post that same message for forever now

This. This is how I read Susan's posts.

No, I totally understand you weren't being all stabby to anyone here, Susan.

Can't be expected to know what demons lurk in my brains, you know? I always feel like it was a mistake that I got published. I'm a wreck about writing this new thing and feel like I'm being presumptuous for even presenting it to my agent. I feel guilty that it happened to me, and not people more deserving. I don't think that demon will ever go away.

Ugly, awful demon.

Sort of, Allyson, yeah. Add that to the feeling I have that Susan and I don't share much beyond writerly...insecurity. Plus the fact that I tend to let things go till they make me "Hulk smash!" annoyed, and then it's like a sniper attack. And I've had sort of a bad week. So I might have said it anyway, but I would have been kinder about it, probably. I'm sorry I was rude. But maybe you do go into publishing correspondence and stuff wearing certain expectancies on your sleeve, Susan. Maybe it sets other people off, too. Maybe that was the thought I was aiming for without all the harsh and profanity. And I do think your work is interesting, even. I've liked it,when I've seen it.

You know what? I'll admit it. I envy all of you. I wish I could describe like Barb, and plot like Susan, and pack a scene like Typo, and get into a character's head like Erika, and be pithy like Allyson, and have half the vocabulary of most of the denizens here. But I don't. I struggle with every word and phrase, and although I get better with practice it's never going to be or seem effortless. I envy the fuck out of you.

For what it's worth.

I've never been clear on why it's wrong for drabbles to be related to a WIP (though I've pretty much stopped posting drabbles because I've felt like I get a bad reaction to ones that are WIP-related). Because to me drabbling about my WIP is part of the enthusiasm for writing and telling a story that apparently isn't coming through on this forum the way I feel it. I love my WIP and its characters--in some ways I live it. So when you give me a writing prompt, my first thought is, "How can I relate this to the story and the characters and world that I'm so crazy about?" The WIP is where I focus all my creative energies because I am so passionate about it.

And as for the drive for publication, while I fully admit there's a piece there that's need for validation, even that is about passion, too. Because the biggest single reason I dream of being a published author successful enough to at least cut back to a part-time job is so I'd have more time to devote to the thing that I love the most.

I wouldn't do this if I didn't love to write and I didn't love my stories. I'm not sure why that's not coming through, because it's there.

Ugly, awful demon.

Lying demon. Lying its ugly ass off, trying to derail you. Pen it up in a dark windowless corner of your brain and stabbinate it.

I remember when I was stuck on bedrest and a few Buffistas did me the great kindness of sending boxes of juicy braincandy novels to while away the weeks. In between all the gobs of mentally non-nutritive but delicious fun, there were a couple so very, spectacularly bad that I had to put them down after a couple of chapters because the pain of slogging through them was worse than the pain of bedrest.

And it's still boggling to me to think back on the sheer wretchedness of those things and then to look at Buffistas like erika and Typo and Susan who are good and thoughtful and can't find a publisher to take a chance on them, and Buffistas like Barb and Amy and my own Hec who have solid publishing histories and still get either left hanging or actively dicked around with. It's all so random it's enough to make you insane.

eta: I actually wrote and then deleted an entire rambly paragraph saying just what Susan did above. Susan's writing mindset is exactly what my acting mindset was a few years ago: I loved it so desperately that I was obsessed with getting that chance, that break, and tormented by every missed opportunity; I loved every present moment of what I was doing, but I so badly wanted the freedom to not do anything else that it made my stomach hurt.

Better than many others who are published? Yes.

Considering some of what's out there . . .

We saw Iron Man today, and I laughed my butt off at the fake Forbes cover with "so and so Takes the Reigns". This is the kind of thing making its way into huge-budget Hollywood movies. I think the average Buffista writer is entitled to think, "If you're letting that stuff through, why aren't I published!"

Yeah, that's the rub, isn't it? That with the arts, there is a huge element of pure chance. It's not a meritocracy, much as we'd like it to be. Lots of people with merit don't get recognition and lots of people with recognition don't necessarily merit it.

Because a) it's subjective and b) it's the world, which really does function a lot by who you know and other random things. So you succeed, you fail, we all want to think it's some magic key we can jiggle properly and that's why it happened. But sometimes it's just that it happened.

And sometimes it really is because of merit. There are lots of artists of all stripes who succeed because they really are just that brilliant. And certainly there are artists who fail because they're not. See any purportedly talent based reality show to get a glimpse of people with real misconceptions about their abilities.

If it were all about merit, we'd be fine, because we could look at each other and say, well, it's okay, because s/he deserved the success enjoyed. And if it were all about luck, we could just say well, it's okay, because I can't do anything about it. But it's somewhere in between, so we're all stuck jiggling the key, and are equally befuddled when our door opens or when someone else's does.

Susan, to me a drabble is like taking a quick walk away from my desk. It's a quick set of crunches, or stretches. It gets me *away* from the piece I'm working on, and blows some fresh air through the brain.

Writing in a different format, about totally different subjects, or possibly just focussing on a single sense, a brief impression, the look on a stranger's face, sundogs in an afternoon sky--those things recharge me, pull focus from where I've been concentrating till my forehead furrows and the words often splurge out in random meaning or slow to sludge. I need the break. I need a shorter focus, or a longer one, I need to breathe other air, travel at a different pace, and see other things. The drabble is a short form, it's made for these quick bites--seven M&Ms instead of a well-planned meal. Seven bright-colored, crunchy in the teeth and sweet on the tongue little sparks of joy to recharge and enable a sharper focus afterward.

Which is why I've always felt--possibly erroneously, because I'm equating my experience of life to yours--that you're not using the form to your best advantage. No one doubts your devotion to your novels, no one doubts your dedication of time and effort. But the amount of both it takes to write 100 words about something completely different? Can turn you back to your ms with a fresh eye, and possibly even a new idea.

It has me, time and time again, and since my experience is all I have to go on, I recommend you try it. You might find it helpful, or maybe not. But it can't hurt to let go your determination--which honestly feels a little grim sometimes--for long enough to write 100 words, and just see.