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Natter 58: Let's call Venezuela!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jessica - Apr 09, 2008 10:13:08 am PDT #665 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

FotC fans take note - they will be performing at Town Hall in NYC May 6&7! Tix go on sale Friday.

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brenda m - Apr 09, 2008 10:14:01 am PDT #666 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

O hai, I can haz comprehension of Stockholm Syndrome now?

Exactly. I mean, I'm sure it was very traumatic for any kid in that situation. No, in any situation where they're being taken out of their homes and away from their families. That doesn't mean it's a bad thing to do, in this and any number of other cases. It wasn't the sympathy for the children that weirded me out, it was the lack of so much as a mention of any reason the authorities might have acted other than being mustache-twirling villians.

(Also, all the women they interviewed are current polygamists. Which, again, certainly a valid perspective. But I find it hard to imagine there aren't any other grown up Short Creek kids who see it differently.)


Trudy Booth - Apr 09, 2008 10:14:34 am PDT #667 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

O hai, I can haz comprehension of Stockholm Syndrome now?

Or just kids wanting to go home.

THEY don't know its freaky to have two dozen siblings and four Moms. To them its not.


Cashmere - Apr 09, 2008 10:15:29 am PDT #668 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

shrift, I may have linked you to mens' cargo pants. I like Orvis, though.

Allyson, good luck with the bureaucratic fuckus. I hope they fix their mistake and apologize for stressing you out.


brenda m - Apr 09, 2008 10:15:53 am PDT #669 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Either you break of families that aren't hurting anybody* or you force them underground and crazy abuses start to occur.

I think the idea that the abuses common to these set-ups is a result of having been forced underground is a huge leap to make.


Theodosia - Apr 09, 2008 10:16:32 am PDT #670 of 10001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

It sounds like the Short Creek families were functional and healthy, albeit with an alternate lifestyle that got dealt with way too harshly. By contrast, the cult being raided now is harsh and abusive, and, well, a cult.


Steph L. - Apr 09, 2008 10:16:36 am PDT #671 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Allyson, if you are feeling overwhelmed it might help to write every single thing that comes into your head that you think needs doing (GTD technique). The idea is that once you put is down it will stop swirling around in your head and causing anxiety.

This is a fantastic technique. I just keep forgetting to put a damn notepad in my purse. Which, frankly, is telling.

Well, you need to remember to write down that you need to put a notepad in your purse so that you can...write down things you need to remember...

Dang!


Vortex - Apr 09, 2008 10:16:39 am PDT #672 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Both myself and my assistant gasped out loud when we saw that outfit.


brenda m - Apr 09, 2008 10:17:24 am PDT #673 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

THEY don't know its freaky to have two dozen siblings and four Moms. To them its not.

Or to be married off at 13 to a man five times their age, etc. Again, I'm not sure the five-year-old's perspective on all this is all that illuminating.


Cashmere - Apr 09, 2008 10:18:08 am PDT #674 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

As long as everybody is of age, I don't see how its anybody's business how many spouses people have.

The thing about this particular cult that freaks me (besides the child molesting and forced marriages) is that they will throw a man out of the group and assign his wife and children to some other man.