He doesn't have to. It's a wedding. There will be plenty of other people there. It's not like asking him to a dinner party with 6 people.
That's exactly what I was going to say!
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He doesn't have to. It's a wedding. There will be plenty of other people there. It's not like asking him to a dinner party with 6 people.
That's exactly what I was going to say!
It wasn't just a disagreement though, he doesn't want to hang out with the guy who nailed his girlfriend.
He doesn't have to. It's a wedding. There will be plenty of other people there. It's not like asking him to a dinner party with 6 people.
Doesn't want to see him then. Be around him. Whatever.
I agree he's being a big fat baby about it, but I can understand his feelings.
And an apology from someone you simply don't want to see or speak to or any of the above? Sort of pointless.
Ugh. It's a mess to be sure. Poor Bon Bon and Bob Bob.
Poor bon bon, I'm guessing you weren't actually trying to solicit advice on the matter.
No, I mean, I do know Broseph and PP and have given it a lot of thought already, I wasn't soliciting advice. But I don't mind people discussing it; it's just the kind of thing buffistas would discuss. And maybe I do need someone else's POV. So go forth and speculate.
The thing is, I can understand how Broseph feels. If the woman that cheated with my boyfriend was going to be at my sister's wedding, I wouldn't be pleased. I'd probably still be a little pissed at my sister for being her friend. BUT, I would say "I really would rather not see that bitch, but I want you guys to be happy on your wedding day. Just don't sit her at my table and tell her not to talk to me"
Yeah, I completely understand Broseph not wanting to talk to PP, though a lot of time has passed (and he forgave the Gladiatrix; but that's probably because he's a bit misogynist). It's inappropriate to make demands on *us*. We shouldn't have any problems inviting whomever we want to OUR g-d wedding. But I don't want to start out on that foot with Broseph and F-MiL.
Why can't these sailors develop a perfectly good toy boat fetish?!
I think I might have an obsession with the fetish. Because I am trying to investigate it again!
It's inappropriate to make demands on *us*.
TOTally, but that's family for you.
I think I might have an obsession with the fetish. Because I am trying to investigate it again!
Has anyone ever come up with... additional documentation?
Wow, I really would have expected Edward Gorey to look a lot more like something out of Edward Gorey. Fun!
He did kind of. He wore sneakers and a full length fur coat to the ballet, and had earrings and big rings even as far back as the early sixties.
I can only sidestep into my best Christine Lavin voice and say, "What was he thinking?"FredPete, I'm so happy someone else knows this reference.