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Natter 58: Let's call Venezuela!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


beth b - Apr 26, 2008 5:09:58 pm PDT #3646 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

now I am glad that ita linked to those boots

my sister just sent me a link to these [link]

saying I needed them - it was good to out ugly her


meara - Apr 26, 2008 5:12:51 pm PDT #3647 of 10001

Yeah, I'm having a hard time imagining a justification for an open toed boot need...

I am drinking a beer in my hotel room, after spending an agonizing afternoon and evening with the family. Oy.

Also, please note: while Finding Sarah Marshall is a fun movie, it is WAAAAY too much about fucking (the word, showing the act, showing full frontal male nudity...) to see with your mom. Unless your mom is way cooler than my mom. OMG.


beth b - Apr 26, 2008 5:15:24 pm PDT #3648 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

meara - may I suggest a G&T? It works better than beer.


§ ita § - Apr 26, 2008 5:19:08 pm PDT #3649 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Did you click on the picture of the entire outfit? It looks downright style-challenged. Sartorial short bus.

You know, I can't remember the last time I saw a movie in the theatres with either of my parents. Huh. Hadn't thought about that. But it's possible that it hasn't happened since I was a teen.

At least when you're watching at home you can get suddenly distracted by something else that really needs to be done in the other room.


beth b - Apr 26, 2008 5:20:21 pm PDT #3650 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Did you click on the picture of the entire outfit?

oh yes.


meara - Apr 26, 2008 5:22:57 pm PDT #3651 of 10001

Eh, I hate gin, and the hotel pantry thing had beer or little tiny bottles of wine. So beer it is...I wanted ot be on the internet more than hang out in some bar by myself.

At least when you're watching at home you can get suddenly distracted by something else that really needs to be done in the other room.

Exactly! Or mom can decide it's not for her and up and leave, or read a book or something. Eep. It was a good *idea*, but...the execution of my plan left something to be desired.

Meanwhile my parents have randomly started freaking out that if I get hit by a bus, they will not know. I pointed out that if I were dead, the few days it might take for them to find out really wouldn't matter. They were like "But what if you were in a COMA??" and I was like "Well, then I probably wouldn't care, would I?" They want me to carry around their phone number in my pocket. I'm like "WTF, I've been living on my own for YEARS now..."


juliana - Apr 26, 2008 5:34:09 pm PDT #3652 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

They want me to carry around their phone number in my pocket. I'm like "WTF, I've been living on my own for YEARS now..."

... Actually, one of the things that is highly recommended by emergency specialists is either a laminated card in your wallet of things like emergency contact info, your doc's number, your preferred hospital, allergies, etc., and/or an entry in your cell phone titled "Emergency" with all of that in there.

I mean, it;s fine for a first responder to assume that "Mom" on your cell phone is someone they should call, but what if Mom's not answering? Who do they call then?

t /thinks about this stuff too much, and has yet to assemble her earthquake kit


beth b - Apr 26, 2008 5:34:33 pm PDT #3653 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

that sounds very random meara...did something scare them recently?


meara - Apr 26, 2008 5:35:55 pm PDT #3654 of 10001

I have no idea why they got all into it. I think because they feel like I don't communicate enough with them, so they wouldn't know if I didnt' call them for a day if it was because I only talk to them once a week-ish, or if it was because i was DEAD.

I have heard the ICE cellphone thing, but I don't have a doc or hospital, or allergies, so...


Kat - Apr 26, 2008 5:46:54 pm PDT #3655 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Actually, one of the things that is highly recommended by emergency specialists is either a laminated card in your wallet of things like emergency contact info, your doc's number, your preferred hospital, allergies, etc., and/or an entry in your cell phone titled "Emergency" with all of that in there.

And they also recommend that if you have an advanced directive that you store it at a place like DocuBank and that you carry that card around too.