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Spike's Bitches 40: Buckle Up, Kids! Daddy's Puttin' the Hammer Down.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Jessica - May 08, 2008 4:53:29 am PDT #8257 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

As a kid, you have no capacity to reason through WHY your parents might be rejecting everything that you are; you just know that your *parents,* the people who are supposed to love and protect you, are saying that your entire identity is WRONG.

I read an article recently on kids and lying, and one of the really interesting things it said was that up through about kindergarten, many kids assume that their parents will always know when they're lying because they think that their parents know everything they're thinking - it just doesn't occur to a really young child that what's in their mind isn't also in their parents' minds. (And obviously the age at which kids realize this isn't true and are able to process what that means for their individual identity varies pretty widely, but up to age 5-6 apparently isn't unusual.)

And so forcing a child that young to (essentially) lie about something that's central to their identity as a human being? When they're just barely beginning to have one? I can't even comprehend how devastating that must be.


amych - May 08, 2008 5:05:24 am PDT #8258 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

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sj - May 08, 2008 5:25:16 am PDT #8259 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I t heart this community so much.

Teppy, or anyone who might know. If a medication says not to take it with an antacid, does that mean I can't take it when I take my prilosec? If I'm not supposed to take it with dairy, how long before or after taking it is it safe to eat dairy? I'm on an antibiotic for a uti and there are a million restrictions on the bottle.


Steph L. - May 08, 2008 5:28:24 am PDT #8260 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

sj, what antibiotic? That way I can just look up the specifics for you.


Jessica - May 08, 2008 5:30:59 am PDT #8261 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Unrelated, does someone want to explain to me why this would possibly cost $30??? Am I missing something?

(I'm window shopping for water toys to take up to Canada. There are many frivolous items making me go "Ooooh!" but I draw the line at spending $30 for a PLASTIC BOWL. I mean, COME ON.)


Aims - May 08, 2008 5:31:07 am PDT #8262 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I'm listening to that program and I'm wondering if Bradley's parents had gone to a therapist like the one Jona's parents went to, Bradley would have a different story? I think some people, especially some parents tend to really be blinded by the term "expert" and stop following their own extincts when it comes to raising their kids. I hear pain in Bradley's parents voices - particularly his mother's - like there is some small voice in her head telling her that what she's doing isn't totally all right and she's really conflicted with wanting her son to be happy and wanting to keep him from being hurt. I don't agree with what she's doing to her kid, but I sort of feel for her.


Emily - May 08, 2008 5:32:24 am PDT #8263 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Does anyone have any experience with Rozerem? Is it something I'd have to take every day for a while to have an effect, or is it something I could use every once in a while if I needed it?


sj - May 08, 2008 5:33:12 am PDT #8264 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, what antibiotic? That way I can just look up the specifics for you.

cipro.


Steph L. - May 08, 2008 5:36:58 am PDT #8265 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Emily, I think you should be able to take it only as needed.

sj, give me a minute and I'll dig up the info.


Steph L. - May 08, 2008 5:42:13 am PDT #8266 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

sj, you're fine with prilosec -- it's just things like Tums and Rolaids that affect Cipro. (Prilosec isn't even technically an "antacid"; it's a proton-pump inhibitor.)

As for dairy, here's what I found:

Ciprofloxacin should not be taken with dairy products (like milk or yogurt) or calcium-fortified juices ALONE since absorption of ciprofloxacin may be significantly reduced; however, ciprofloxacin may be taken with a meal that contains these products.