OK, just need a reality check here. On the TWOP forum for Jon and Kate Plus Eight, people are saying that it's "inappropriate" for the three-year-old girls to be given baths by their father, and that their mother should be doing it. Three seems to me like young enough that it shouldn't matter which parent is giving the bath, as long as someone is getting the kids clean.
That's ridiculous.
Also, people saying that the three-year-olds should be brushing their own hair by now. The boys, maybe, but the girls all have long hair. Do three-year-olds have that sort of coordination and patience to comb through and style their own hair? I'm pretty sure my mom was styling my hair each morning until second grade or so.
Maybe they could be brushing it but not styling it. I think my mother was putting up my hair until at least second grade too. I couldn't do it evenly.
Ever think that our society is so paranoid about molestation that they make innocent, natural acts lewd and dirty? Sad.
If Annabel brushes her own hair, she skips the tangled bits. I usually let her brush it, then follow up to smooth it out/get all of the tangles. And both of use give her baths and supervise her dressing.
Ever think that our society is so paranoid about molestation that they make innocent, natural acts lewd and dirty? Sad.
That and they apparently don't know how the hell pedophilia WORKS.
If the Father is a pedophile he doesn't need to be bathing them to molest them. And since he ISN'T a pedophile he isn't going to accidentally feel them up instead of scrubbing them.
Humans piss me off.
My mom was combing the knots out of my hair after I washed it until I was at least 11 or so. At that age, I could put it in a ponytail or braid or whatever else myself, but didn't have the patience to detangle, and couldn't do it too well, anyway. Combing out knots you can't see is tricky.
Years ago I was listening to some public radio program - they had some listener responses to a previous story about a man who took his son hunting. One of the callers complained that a man being alone with his son in the woods would give the man the opportunity to molest his son. So according to the caller, I guess men should never be left alone with their children....
One of the callers complained that a man being alone with his son in the woods would give the man the opportunity to molest his son. So according to the caller, I guess men should never be left alone with their children....
According to me, children should never be left alone with that caller.
OK, just need a reality check here. On the TWOP forum for Jon and Kate Plus Eight, people are saying that it's "inappropriate" for the three-year-old girls to be given baths by their father, and that their mother should be doing it. Three seems to me like young enough that it shouldn't matter which parent is giving the bath, as long as someone is getting the kids clean.
I have distinct memories of my father bathing me - zero squick about it, and it can't have been younger than 4. If we were going to wait for my mother to give me a bath, I'd still be dirty. My own thought is that if the man is a good, healthy father who has no truly inappropriate urges, it is well and good for him to bathe the girls right up until they are capable of bathing themselves competently - because the real dividing line would be before puberty. Nobody says it is inappropriate for a healthy mother to bathe her son at age 3, do they?
It's gotten to the point that people view everything through a pedophile lens. I certainly understand some paranoia, but a dad bathing his 3-year-old daughter??
My mother combed my hair every day until I was fourteen. I'm still kind of bitter about her stopping.
Men? Apparently they are untrustworthy scum.
Who let them be in charge, again?
