Remember that sex we were planning to have, ever again?

Zoe ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 56: ...we need the writers.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Glamcookie - Jan 25, 2008 10:41:48 am PST #5500 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

They are here to do a post-construction cleaning, but I think I'm going to start having them come every two weeks.


Pix - Jan 25, 2008 10:43:34 am PST #5501 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

That's what we started doing this past fall, and it's been a godsend.


Steph L. - Jan 25, 2008 10:46:49 am PST #5502 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Until embarrassingly recently, it never even occurred to me that someone wouldn't live paycheck-to-paycheck.

I have a small emergency fund (~1 month's expenses in a high[ish]-yield online savings account), and a "cushion" of sorts in savings at my local bank (in case monthly bills are high, or the car insurance premium is due, etc.), but for the most part, my paychecks (which go into my checking account) are budgeted and every dollar is accounted for.

Is that paycheck-to-paycheck? I've never been quite clear on what people mean when they use that phrase. Or is it one of those phrases that might mean different things to different people?

Ever since I moved in with The Boy, my minimum monthly expenses come out to just about 1 takehome paycheck (I get paid every other week), but I have a year of car payments left, along with a little over $9,000 in credit card debt (0%, fortunately), so I'm throwing as much of the rest of my monthly income at my debt as I possibly can.

In fact, this month marks the first time in literally years that my credit card debt will be under $10,000. I aim to get it paid off by the end of 2008, if not sooner.


Pix - Jan 25, 2008 10:48:51 am PST #5503 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

I have a small emergency fund (~1 month's expenses in a high[ish]-yield online savings account), and a "cushion" of sorts in savings at my local bank (in case monthly bills are high, or the car insurance premium is due, etc.), but for the most part, my paychecks (which go into my checking account) are budgeted and every dollar is accounted for.
That's my definition of paycheck-to-paycheck. Just the idea that you need to budget each paycheck and, as a result, you'd be screwed if a paycheck didn't come.


megan walker - Jan 25, 2008 10:48:55 am PST #5504 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

That's what we started doing this past fall, and it's been a godsend.

Very much this. Ours is a fortune though because my housemate wanted to make sure that the cleaners were real employees with health insurance and the like.

I can't really complain though because my rent and bills together are still a very good deal. And it eliminates one of the biggest housemate issues.


Sophia Brooks - Jan 25, 2008 10:49:55 am PST #5505 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I think paycheck to paycheck means you have NO emergency fund at all. I, for example, have no savings account, and often, after paying my bills, have only $50 in my checking account, so if something happens I am screwed, have to use credit, or ask my mother for money. That is how I define it, but I guess others could do it differently

ETA: and I guess they do.

My thing is, I live so much paycheck to paycheck that I don't even budget. I get the paycheck and pay bills until there is no money left until I get the next one.


tommyrot - Jan 25, 2008 10:50:21 am PST #5506 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

How do multi-CD car stereos usually work? Assuming no CDs in it, does the first CD you put in become #1, the second #2, etc? Or do you have to specify somehow what # the CD is when you put it in?

(Stupid rental car doesn't have an external player input jack </first world problem>)


Jesse - Jan 25, 2008 10:51:12 am PST #5507 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I would say if you have savings, you aren't living paycheck-to-paycheck.

It's a pool of a set percentage for a small number of people, so to give someone a bit extra you have to take away from somebody else.

I can't believe I'm saying this, but I wish we had that here, because my #2 and I would each gladly give up a small percentage to give our underpaid minion a much larger percentage, but they won't let us! I've offered.


tommyrot - Jan 25, 2008 10:53:26 am PST #5508 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I would say if you have savings, you aren't living paycheck-to-paycheck.

How about if your savings are part of your retirement fund and you'd pay a substantial penalty for early withdrawl?


Pix - Jan 25, 2008 10:54:03 am PST #5509 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

I think paycheck to paycheck means you have NO emergency fund at all. I, for example, have no savings account, and often, after paying my bills, have only $50 in my checking account, so if something happens I am screwed, have to use credit, or ask my mother for money. That is how I define it, but I guess others could do it differently.
I'm mostly in the same boat. It's how I've ended up getting back into credit card debt this past year.

ETA: Lest anyone wonder how I'm affording a cleaner given this statement, keep in mind that ND and I are not married and don't pool our money. He covers the cleaners.