Damn it! You know what? I'm sick of this crap. I'm sick of being the guy who eats insects and gets the funny syphilis. As of this moment, it's over. I'm finished being everybody's butt monkey!

Xander ,'Lessons'


Natter 56: ...we need the writers.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


ChiKat - Jan 06, 2008 6:27:38 pm PST #1243 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

There is so much to do. Cycling back to the statement that classes just get in the way of working on the play.

I am so glad you agree!! It would be so much easier to just focus on the play and not worry about classes. But, alas. I still have 6 classes to teach every day in addition to pulling together the play.

This week will prove fairly interesting. We start rehearsals for the show (both casts...yes, I have 2 complete, separate casts of the same show). I have a new batch of 6th graders starting tomorrow. The quarter ends next Friday, so I'm wrapping things up with my current 7th and 8th graders. And, I've got a sub in for Thurs and Fri because I'm going to the state high school theatre festival and presenting a workshop on Friday.

I seriously love doing all this, but it's a lot of juggling some weeks.

We are doing 'team development' tomorrow morning. For some reason 'Draconian Dictator' thought it would be great for the faculty and staff to go to the local bowling lanes from 8:30-12:30 tomorrow.

So much wrong with that statement. I go back to work tomorrow, but so do the kids. I actually need to get there early in order to make the dreaded photocopies of things. I hate making copies.

No one asked how much pain I was in, no one could agree on what meds I'd been given or remained to be given, or how much (and even when they discovered they were contradicting each other, no one came back and told me the right answer).

I hate our health care "system" so so much most days. I think your birthday present should be a significant pain reduction in 2008.

Chances are people will still notice how Florida votes, it just won't count. Then again I can't promise we'll count the votes right anyway.

BWAH! Oh, dear.

I've not been too industrious about a will since I have no dependents or significant other and my parents have access to my savings and are named as joint beneficiaries of my 401K and profit sharing plan. Basically all that would have to go through probate before getting to them would be a few hundred dollars in my checking account, some Disney stock, and a couple rooms full of furniture they wouldn't want anyway .

Matt and I are one on this. I don't own anything. My mom and sister are beneficiaries of my 403B and life insurance. I have several people who have said they will take care of my cat. That's all I need need right now.


Vortex - Jan 06, 2008 7:22:44 pm PST #1244 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Funny story -- when I was about 10, I was snooping around random stuff and found my dad's will. I thought that having a will meant that you were going to die. So, for several days, I was really freaked out and weird. My dad finally pushed to find out what was wrong, and I burst into tears and wailed "I don't want you to die!" He was very confused. When he finally got the story, amidst my heaving sobs, he was very amused. And told me that it was my own damn fault for snooping :)

I've avoided the question of wills with my parents since my niece was born. My parents are so pissed about the name change thing that they were talking about cutting my brother out of their wills. At one point a few weeks after the bomb was dropped, my mother said "I want to leave you everything, and you give it to [my niece] according to my wishes" I told her that what she wanted was a trust, and she could make me trustee if she wanted, but to think about it because she was still really upset.

I was talking to them a few weeks ago, and they're still upset. Not being a part of it at all.


Consuela - Jan 06, 2008 7:47:56 pm PST #1245 of 10001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

I talked to my folks this weekend about their estate plans, and got my dad to agree to see an elder law specialist to update all their documents, which are currently about ten years old. They seem in good financial shape but I worry about medical care draining them dry...

Sigh.

ita, I have no words for the folks at the ER, just shaking fists of rage on your behalf. Argh.

Damn, I have to go back to work tomorrow! How crappy is that?


javachik - Jan 06, 2008 8:03:31 pm PST #1246 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Vortex, did your brother change his last name or something? I must have missed that.


Vortex - Jan 06, 2008 8:34:15 pm PST #1247 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Vortex, did your brother change his last name or something? I must have missed that.

yes, after my niece was born. My bro and SIL had issues about the baby's last name. My bro wanted his last name, my SIL wanted her last name and neither would budge. Instead of just hyphenating like normal people, they decided to change their last name altogether. I've never seen my father so hurt and upset. My mother is still pissed at my SIL. (which she blames for the whole thing)


javachik - Jan 06, 2008 8:42:14 pm PST #1248 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Oh, yes, now that does ring a bell. Does their new last name reflect at all a combination of their previous names?


Vortex - Jan 06, 2008 8:45:40 pm PST #1249 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Does their new last name reflect at all a combination of their previous names?

sort of. my brother' middle name (which he goes by, being a junior) and SIL's last name have the same first three letters, so that's their new name.


javachik - Jan 06, 2008 8:52:26 pm PST #1250 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Huh. That's a new one to me. I'm sorry it's causing so much friction in your family.


Susan W. - Jan 06, 2008 9:00:28 pm PST #1251 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Chris Rock on the Bush presidency: "He has fucked up so bad that it's hard for a white man to run for president."

It's funny because it's shaping up to be true...

(From this article: [link]


§ ita § - Jan 06, 2008 9:14:36 pm PST #1252 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Brothers mauled by tiger refuse the police access to their cellphones.

One of those things that doesn't mean anything, but gets a brain to wondering.