Sweet lumpy minion, you're the only one that understands. Probably 'cause I haven't sucked the brain out of you yet.

Glory ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


javachik - Feb 20, 2008 10:33:42 am PST #7152 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Speaking of first-world, I have new hair! It's very different.

Pics please?!


Emily - Feb 20, 2008 10:34:51 am PST #7153 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I think of the Phoebe line from Friends, which I always remember as being, "Except that was a real problem and this is high-school bullshit!" even though I know that couldn't have been the word.


omnis_audis - Feb 20, 2008 10:36:09 am PST #7154 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

"Your problem is that you don't know the difference between an inconvenience and a problem."
One of my Social Studies teachers in 5th or 6th grade had this thing of learning the difference between "wants" and "needs". It was a rather good lesson, one I still heed to today. It helps with the frugal side of me.


beekaytee - Feb 20, 2008 10:38:05 am PST #7155 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

"Your problem is that you don't know the difference between an inconvenience and a problem."

This is huge. I wrote an article recently about how to put out your 'catastro-fires'...based in Albert Ellis' Rational Emotive Therapy. It's so liberating to be able to see the difference between 'it's killing me!' and 'it's uncomfortable.'

I'll have to go back and read some of my Robert Fulghum. I remember loving 'It was on fire when I lay down on it.'


Pix - Feb 20, 2008 10:42:55 am PST #7156 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Don't get me wrong--I think we all have a right to our feelings of frustration or anger or grief. It was just a reality check for me, personally. Powerful.


Volans - Feb 20, 2008 10:49:42 am PST #7157 of 10001
move out and draw fire

It's just, to have that little anecdote stated with such clarity...normally when I'm confronted with How Much Worse It Could Be, the enormity of the Worse is too much for my little brain to deal with. It's like, when we lived in Romania it was a really really hard winter, and the city was starving. There was a segment on the TV news about how rats had eaten a baby in a cradle. I have no idea if it was true or not (Romanian news tended towards the Weekly World News with comfortable frequency), but it was just one more thing in my day to day existence of people with no heat, no water, no food, no medical care, no hope.

On a lighter note, I've decided that my new hair is Scully hair: [link]


amych - Feb 20, 2008 10:51:12 am PST #7158 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

It's totally Scully Hair, and it's fabulous!


hippocampus - Feb 20, 2008 10:51:44 am PST #7159 of 10001
not your mom's socks.

Awesome haircut!


Nora Deirdre - Feb 20, 2008 10:52:03 am PST #7160 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Raq, you look GORGEOUS! Love the hair and the rest of you!


beekaytee - Feb 20, 2008 10:53:03 am PST #7161 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

Beauty!

Very different, but really flattering in every way.