Willow: It feels like we're going around in circles. Xander: Our circles are going around in circles. We got dizzy circles here.

'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Feb 09, 2008 7:37:31 am PST #5934 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Sure, no problem. I'll email it to you, love.


Strix - Feb 09, 2008 7:38:44 am PST #5935 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

thanks, sweetie


Strix - Feb 09, 2008 8:00:34 am PST #5936 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

backflung


Polter-Cow - Feb 09, 2008 8:03:06 am PST #5937 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Happy birthday, Suzi!


Anne W. - Feb 09, 2008 8:11:34 am PST #5938 of 10001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Happy Birthday, Suzi!


Nicole - Feb 09, 2008 9:03:20 am PST #5939 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!

Happy Birthday, Suz!


Pix - Feb 09, 2008 9:06:37 am PST #5940 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

FUCK.

I just checked my bank account online and discovered that the friggin credit union deducted my rent check, by far my biggest bill, TWICE. I didn't realize it until now, and of course now their damned offices are closed until Monday. I could kill someone. HUGE overdraft fees and bounced bullshit heading my way if I can't work this out ASAP.

Nowhere to leave a message on their voicemail, so I've sent an irate email. Of course they can't do anything until Monday. Fucking wonderful.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 09, 2008 9:16:45 am PST #5941 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Ugh, Kristin. If it's any help, there hopefully won't be any transactions against your account till Monday which would bounce. Also, since this is clearly their screw up, they should eat any overdraft charges and fees.

Am taking a research break. Waiting for my folks to come into town. I need some etiquette advice: both of my parents' birthdays were this past week (the 4th and the 6th) and when they decided to come up and visit (there's a bigger family lunch thing tomorrow) today/tonight, I offered to cook dinner for them as a birthday treat, since money's kind of tight with us. They declined and instead asked to go to a semi-hoity toity restaurant in Ipswich. I didn't specifically offer dinner up as birthday present, so I don't know what to do or how to handle this. It's going to be tough enough to eat the costs for the 2 of us for dinner tonight as well as (I assume) lunch tomorrow. But I feel like a heel if I don't offer to pick up the tab.

Thoughts? I have not mentioned to them that we are financially tight right now.


Pix - Feb 09, 2008 9:26:24 am PST #5942 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Nora, thanks. I do think that the CU will eat the overdraft fees and all; it will probably be fine. I'm just really frustrated because I was going to do something nice for myself today since I'm so bummed about ND leaving, and now I can't without using the credit card, which I've sworn off. Gr, argh.

In terms of your folks, I would be *really* honest with them. They love you, they'll understand. Just tell them that you had offered to make dinner because money is a little tight right now, and the restaurant is not really a possibility at the moment. Maybe offer to make dessert for them at home after they've eaten at the restaurant on their own? I know it feels like you're being a heel, but you're really not. They are inadvertently putting you in an uncomfortable situation, and I'm sure they would want to know.


Amy - Feb 09, 2008 9:27:32 am PST #5943 of 10001
Because books.

Yikes, Kristin. I hate shit like that.

Also yikes, Nora. I'm not sure what I'd do in that situation. I sort of feel like they shouldn't have suggested the change unless they were willing to at least split the tab, since "let us cook you dinner" does *not* equal dinner out at a fancy restaurant to me.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SUZI! With huge hugs and cake and lots of happy.