Mal: Cut it out. Job's not done until we're back on Serenity. Zoe: Sorry, sir. Didn't mean to enjoy the moment.

'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Susan W. - Feb 06, 2008 3:49:28 pm PST #5625 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

{{{Cash}}}

I like the idea of scheduled downtime. It's different for us because we both work, but it's an ongoing process of negotiation.


Amy - Feb 06, 2008 3:50:02 pm PST #5626 of 10001
Because books.

Cash, my mom says there were days my dad walked in, and she handed him my bother (he was a baby, I was three) and locked herself in the bathroom without a word.

I've done both -- home with kids and working full-time (with kids), and hands down, home with kids is harder. At least at work you can tune out for a few minutes, or let voice mail pick up, and even while commuting you can turn your brain off for a bit, knowing a two-year-old is not going to be demanding a juice box or, you know, peeing on the floor.


beth b - Feb 06, 2008 3:55:50 pm PST #5627 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I think scheduling is a grand idea -- that way even if it wasn't scheduled exactly when you needed it - you'd know when your next break was going to be. Kids do not come with 15 minute breaks or with a lunch break


Susan W. - Feb 06, 2008 3:58:45 pm PST #5628 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

ION, my workplace is threatening to implode. I'm mostly a spectator, but there's some major conflict going on between the new director and most of the staff with a few subsidiary conflicts here and there. Tomorrow we're having a two-hour meeting of all the permanent staff, headed by the divisional administrator under whose umbrella the department falls, to try to iron things out. And I'm expecting it to be explosive.

It's not a good atmosphere there, and I'm wondering if it's time for me to update my resume and start actively looking. I don't think my position is threatened--it's been explicitly stated that I'm doing a great job, especially given how little orientation and support I received when I came on board. But it's just not a good place to be, and I wouldn't be surprised if we have MASSIVE turnover in the next few months, enough to threaten the stability of our program.

Sigh. I was really hoping when I took this job that it would be It, if not the last job I took before getting published and (hopefully) getting in a position to switch to a part-time day job, at least a place where I could stay for 4-5 years and have some stability and contentment in my work life for a change. But lately it's been all instability and discontent, and I don't see it improving in the short term. A two-hour meeting just isn't going to fix things, you know?


vw bug - Feb 06, 2008 4:15:17 pm PST #5629 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Oh, Cash. I wish you were closer. I'd totally come over and give you a break.

So, are these sugar? [link]


beth b - Feb 06, 2008 4:17:21 pm PST #5630 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Never hurts to update your resume - esp when you have the choice of being picky

and those flats - very sugar. I want them


libkitty - Feb 06, 2008 4:24:07 pm PST #5631 of 10001
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

We've been getting a lot of snow, so it's piled up all over, hanging on trees, piled on cars and houses, really pretty. Now, it's starting to get windy, and we get wind here unlike anywhere else I've been, huge gales coming down off the ice field. There was just an amazing gust full of snow, swirling around, all sparkly and powerful. It was gorgeous, since I saw it from inside. I'd sure hate to be out in it, though.


Stephanie - Feb 06, 2008 4:36:23 pm PST #5632 of 10001
Trust my rage

Joe and I sometimes end up playing "who's more tired." I hate it because it's a different kind of tired, but we are both tired in our own way.


beekaytee - Feb 06, 2008 4:53:29 pm PST #5633 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

Yay for new computers, bonny! It's good to see you here! Are you finally over the Ick?

I am Epic, thanks for checking in. It took soooo long and even today I had a teeny relapse. This one was one tenacious bugger.

And I'm really loving the new 'puters. So nice to be back on control.

Vortex, you are totally right about the lack of info on the DC website. Useless. Not to mention, the postcard telling you that the voter guide is online did not even mention the primary. USEless!

We never had any reason to take primaries seriously before but it is as if the PTB weren't sure we'd actually get the right to appoint delegates so they didn't plan for success. Such a waste, given all the work various groups are undertaking to make this area politically viable.

At any rate, glad you found your polling place. That is one thing the city does well. You never have to go far to find your voting booth...however plastic and wobbly and Playskool it might look.


Java cat - Feb 06, 2008 5:54:23 pm PST #5634 of 10001
Not javachik

I swear. Some of the people I work for are trapped in some developmental stage where they want people to hand them things and say "this is your milk. this is your cookies. you're the bestest smartest little boy in this office." ::pat pat pat::

I wonder if it's a male attorney thing. Reading that makes me so happy that I'm not working under the Big!Boss!Attorney any more. SIGH OF HAPPINESS.