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Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Jan 16, 2008 5:10:44 am PST #2573 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Nora, I think at this point, I'd wait until you've been offered the position, and you're in the negotiation phase. But, others might have different advice.


Liese S. - Jan 16, 2008 5:14:23 am PST #2574 of 10001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Hee. Jack Russells are fun. The neighbor dog is a Jack Russell, and he's been coming over to check on the progress of the house. If the door is open, he just runs in and checks out all the rooms. Makes sure things are going okay, checks to see if he's going to be fed scraps by the workers, then takes off. When we put him out because of the wet tile, he was mightily offended. Can't imagine what Seabiscuit's going to think when he gets to the house.


sumi - Jan 16, 2008 5:24:30 am PST #2575 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

Man, Liese, I can't believe you threw out the superintendent!

I got to visit with Great Danes and an Australian Shepherd on Sunday. (Oh, yeah - there were people there too.) It was fun to see how very typey they were in personality. The Danes were rather reserved but then when they warmed up to you would calmly stand next to you to be petted. The Aussie was quite bossy and would bark if you weren't doing what she wanted. The Danes are pretty much non-barky and non-licky. Although, of course, they drool.


amych - Jan 16, 2008 5:26:16 am PST #2576 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

The Aussie was quite bossy and would bark if you weren't doing what she wanted.

Ha! So. Very. Aussie. (I love the herding breeds with a mad insane passion. But, yeah, a little opinionated.)


SailAweigh - Jan 16, 2008 5:26:26 am PST #2577 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

::crosses Jack Russells off the list of dogs to ever be considered in her house::

Nora, I agree with vw. Especially if you didn't put it in writing anywhere for them to refresh their memories. It's easy at that point to bump it up 2K or 5K, whatever you feel a more accurate range is.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 16, 2008 5:36:02 am PST #2578 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Especially if you didn't put it in writing anywhere for them to refresh their memories.

Well, *she* wrote it down. I will just need to steel myself to not accept the offer immediately until thinking it over and figuring out if I should negotiate.


vw bug - Jan 16, 2008 5:38:05 am PST #2579 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Absolutely negotiate. Especially if you have new information about what the job would entail.


Dana - Jan 16, 2008 5:38:42 am PST #2580 of 10001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I will just need to steel myself to not accept the offer immediately until thinking it over and figuring out if I should negotiate.

Definitely. And remember that you may be able to negotiate for things besides money -- benefits and perks.


SuziQ - Jan 16, 2008 5:40:55 am PST #2581 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Thanks for asking the question Nora. I'm waiting to see what I am offered for my new job. I haven't been asked what I want, and there are some other issues at play - so it will be interesting to see what they offer. But I'm ready to negotiate if it does not meet my current expectations.

It is nice to read everyone's support of waiting for the offer and then negotiating from there.


Liese S. - Jan 16, 2008 5:43:55 am PST #2582 of 10001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Yup, this. Lots of things are negotiable, and employers sometimes like doing those because it gives them more invisible latitude with the overall compensation package.

Man, Liese, I can't believe you threw out the superintendent!

Ha. So wrong. He came back, though. He wasn't offended for long.

So. Very. Aussie.

The Biscuit is mainly Australian Shepherd, and he's totally like this although we're trying to work out some of the more annoying behaviors. (You may ask nicely to be petted. You may not charge into the room demanding instant pettification.)

Are Aussies generally barky? Ours never used to bark at all, in the desert, but he sure barks a lot here in the neighborhood. I'm hoping it calms down when we get to the new house, but sheesh, dog.