She's just buying time, Aimee, right? You guys have a legal right to enter with advance notice. She may be in trouble, anyway.
Probably.
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She's just buying time, Aimee, right? You guys have a legal right to enter with advance notice. She may be in trouble, anyway.
Probably.
How much notice do you have to give her?
72 hours.
Suzi imo this isn't just a holiday trip, it's important for K-Bug to be there at a certain time. But if things are tense between you and your Dad maybe you could get K-Bug to talk to him and explain why she needs to reschedule her flight.
I'm actually thinking of having my husband do it. I checked the airline to make sure there is a red eye. I am even considering calling and asking what the change fee would be - I have her itinerary number.
I'm picturing an apartment full of hydroponic marijuana.
Laga said what I was thinking.
Suzi, I think the Husband Card is a good one to play here. Let him be the hard-ass "K-Bug just can't miss X, Y, and Z". Its WHY people get married, I think its in the vows...
It's not iPod color. Like Laga said, its the whole point of the trip.
And what my boss is thinking.
Aimee, give her the 72 hours notice. Then sit on the lawn with a camera and take pictures of the guy trying to move stuff out before you get there and see he's moved in.
Suzi, I'm sorry your father is making his gift so difficult to accept.
In my family news: One of my sister's best friends from college has started emailing my Mom with pointed questions about the asshate husband. Apparently my sister said some stuff in an email that's got the friend concerned. I'm blown away by how thoughtful this friend is, to go out of her way to make sure Meg's OK. But then I remember how sweet she always was and I'm not that surprised.