For me, my polyamory and my bisexuality are intertwined. This is not the case for everyone.
Exactly. Like amych was saying eariler--she's bi, but monogamous. I'm more like Laga, though. I don't have any particular drive to date other men (I'm kind of smitten with the one I have already, and he fills my desire for being with guys), but I've really missed other women when I've been in het mono relationships.
Man, I'm feeling all vulnerable talking about all of this. I have no idea why given how much I care about the people on this board. Fear of being judged, I guess. Silly Kristin.
ETA:
Not to derail, but did b.org talk about this NEW JOSS SHOW somewhere and I just... missed it?
Gris, huge conversation in Minearverse and some smatterings in Natter. Very exciting!
Minearverse. Quite a bit, in fact.
Kristin and I fall into the camp of folks who are committed to each other and then occasionally date other women as a couple. I really tend to not be the jealous type so I don't have an issue if she dates other women and she has in the past and in some cases we've ended up dating those women as a couple. I don't usually feel much of a need to label things. We are happy and we do what works for the two of us, and at the end of the day that's pretty much what's important.
Man, I'm feeling all vulnerable talking about all of this. I have no idea why given how much I care about the people on this board. Fear of being judged, I guess. Silly Kristin.
piffle. is there a group less judgmental than us? I mean, as long as we aren't talking about grammar, cilantro or muffalettas.
Crazy not serial comma users.
I would like to be poly in an intellectual sense, but am definitely not.
Heh. When I was a teenager I used to think I was poly, but it turns out I was just reading too much Heinlein.
