I fixed that problem by marrying my Tivo. He's the best thing that ever happened to me.
My current fix involves kicking and hitting of pads. And then when class is over having, um, vivid thoughts about my various instructors.
Not
during
class, however, because during class I'm a) too focused on not getting kicked in the head and b) hating their guts.
Last night, for example, the hating involved "Ok, tonight we're going to do ten push ups, ten crunches, ten jump squats. Let's see how many sets you can get through in three minutes. When the bell rings at each minute that just means push harder."
I keep wanting to say "I'm a fat girl! Stop doing this to me!!!!"
Do you know how long three minutes can last? A long long time.
Well, that and he's smokin' hawt.
True, but I can now get into his pants without him being here. He might be superfulous at this point.
I was responding to this from Toddson
Trudy - teh sex, silly!
it's an irritatingly common misconception.
dating is a pita no matter what your orientation.
it's an irritatingly common misconception.
Well, I get that, but Toddson's comment has some validity also. There *is* sex involved in polyamory, yes? The relationships aren't
purely
about sex, but there is sex there.
There *is* sex involved in polyamory, yes?
I seem to remember sex. It's just that so very many people think poly and swinging is the same thing. The root of poly (for me) is the freedom to be in love with more than one person at a time. Sex is just one part of love.
Sure, but sex is what makes it polyamory.
Sex isn't the defining factor of the relationships themselves, but sex is what makes the other relationships not monogamy.
Sure, but sex is what makes it polyamory.
no. It's not. Love is what makes it polyamory. Lots of people have sex without love. I have known celibate poly folk.
Sure, but sex is what makes it polyamory.
Sex isn't the defining factor of the relationships themselves, but sex is what makes the other relationships not monogamy.
I don't see it that way. When I think of polyamory I think of three or more adults in a functioning relationship-whether or not they are currently having sex.
When I think of swingers, I think of at least one functioning relationship that includes sex with each other and other people/couples.
Daniel is napping on the sofa. He has a cat lump under the throw blanket. It's the cutest that snoring can be.
