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Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Nov 01, 2007 4:44:02 pm PDT #2044 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

A roommate? And he's not in the house? I concur with megan.


Laga - Nov 01, 2007 4:46:55 pm PDT #2045 of 10002
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I concur with megan.

Yeah especially since our other roommate asked him please not to do it after the last time. And I dunno about you guys but I feel like my clothes get a little funky if I leave them in the washer for too long.

edit: still I prefer him to my sister's asshate husband.


Susan W. - Nov 01, 2007 4:50:34 pm PDT #2046 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Susan, do you have to drink the awful laxative stuff? Because once you start that, you're not likely to be particularly hungry.

Um, 15 minutes ago. And yeah, tastes pretty awful, though I drank it very quickly in very cold Sprite, and it was really only bad when I had to stop for breath.

And don't worry, that's the most gruesome the details are going to get.


Typo Boy - Nov 01, 2007 5:12:30 pm PDT #2047 of 10002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

A quick question. I have a friend about 53, getting over a bad breakup who has decided to try on-line dating. She is unconventional, politically lefty, a smoker, spiritual but not religious, a lot of leftover hippie. Very pretty. What are the right dating services for her? She's been trying match.com without many results, though I think that all she did was put up a profile; she hasn't been scanning others profiles and contacting them. Also I suspect her profile may be a little long.

Related to that, can someone refer to some good articles that tell how to get the most out of whatever on-line dating services you try?


beth b - Nov 01, 2007 5:13:04 pm PDT #2048 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Susan - you have been through the worst of it now, from my DH's perspective.

Happy birthday Ginger


tommyrot - Nov 01, 2007 5:21:00 pm PDT #2049 of 10002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

She is unconventional, politically lefty, a smoker, spiritual but not religious, a lot of leftover hippie. Very pretty. What are the right dating services for her?

It seems to me match.com is fairly mainstream, so it might not be the best for her. There's a service that you can get to through a number of "alternative" sites such as The Onion and Nerve (it's all the same service) that might be better.

Or, you know, you could introduce her to me....


Laga - Nov 01, 2007 5:29:46 pm PDT #2050 of 10002
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I like OK Cupid. If she's a free-love hippie she might try polymatchmaker.com.


d - Nov 01, 2007 5:46:43 pm PDT #2051 of 10002
It's nice to see some brave pretenders trying to make it interesting.

Is she politically active? I don't know if I saw something here or elsewhere, but there are a bunch of sites you can find with activist online dating as a search term. Including Act for Love which has some links to other dating sites near the bottom of the main page.


Typo Boy - Nov 01, 2007 6:00:23 pm PDT #2052 of 10002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Tommyrot, don't think you are in the same state - or even the same coast.


Typo Boy - Nov 01, 2007 6:01:10 pm PDT #2053 of 10002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

She is politically active, but don't think she wants to limit herself to political activists.