Right, there comes a point where you have to either move on, or just buy yourself a Klingon costume and go with it.

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Oct 31, 2007 11:14:07 am PDT #1859 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I wish I'd known this stuff the last three times I didn't get my security deposit back.

I had an evil landlady try to shaft me out of the security deposit by claiming she had to have a "cleaning team" come in to clean after I moved out. Which she may have opted to do, but she didn't include an itemized list of the cleaning expenses -- including everything that was dirty/damaged beyond normal wear and tear -- when she sent me the letter telling me she was keeping my security deposit. (And, of course, she couldn't have done so in good faith, since nothing beyond normal wear and tear was present.)

Therefore, I wrote her a polite but firm letter citing Ohio law, etc., and she wrote me a vituperous letter accusing me of threatening her with a lawsuit. Which I did. She didn't return my deposit.

So I had my friend, who's an attorney, spend 10 minutes drafting a letter on her letterhead, and she sent it to the landlady.

Got my security deposit back.


tommyrot - Oct 31, 2007 11:17:31 am PDT #1860 of 10002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

and she wrote me a vituperous letter accusing me of threatening her with a lawsuit.

"How dare you exercise your right to secure the money that I legally owe you!"


Scrappy - Oct 31, 2007 11:18:58 am PDT #1861 of 10002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Thanks for the research and support, you guys. Can we still sue for our deposit if we are breaking our lease? We did give them 60 days' notice, but I don't know if that's enough to put us on firm legal footing. I can't research right now, due to having actual work to do today.


Steph L. - Oct 31, 2007 11:24:38 am PDT #1862 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Robin, this page -- [link] -- down under the section "No Legal Reason" makes it sound as though you can still get your security deposit back even if you broke your lease.


§ ita § - Oct 31, 2007 11:28:07 am PDT #1863 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Security deposits are completely separate from rent money. I was stiffed because I'd paid first and last months up front, or something.


-t - Oct 31, 2007 11:29:46 am PDT #1864 of 10002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Gloomcookie, you are SUPER sugar!

So, so true.

Craziness on the deposit, Robin. I'll defer to the actual regulations, but California law tends to be very much on the side of the tenant.


Toddson - Oct 31, 2007 11:42:44 am PDT #1865 of 10002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

GC is indeed super sugar!

Aimee, I don't know where you get the energy! (if it's drugs, let me know what kind, please)

When I leave my current apartment, I'm sure I'll get dinged on the security deposit - the place is falling apart (in some places literally).

And I'd heard about using toothpaste on CSI! (see - TV IS educational!)


sj - Oct 31, 2007 11:43:16 am PDT #1866 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

T e-mailed me today to tell me what the nephews were wearing for Halloween tonight, and I ended up crying in the mall parking lot. It's T's birthday tomorrow, and I miss them all so much. So, I went to Mom's school because I figured seeing all of the kindergarteners in their Halloween costumes would cheer me up, which it did. There was the cutest Jack Sparrow.


Aims - Oct 31, 2007 11:43:51 am PDT #1867 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Aimee, I don't know where you get the energy!

Pure, unadulterated determination.


amych - Oct 31, 2007 11:45:26 am PDT #1868 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Pure, unadulterated determination.

Man, I was hoping for drugs. I don't think they write prescriptions for this "determination" stuff.