Buffy: So how'd she get away with the bad mojo stuff? Anya: Giles sold it to her. Giles: Well, I didn't know it was her. I mean, how could I? If it's any consolation, I may have overcharged her.

'Sleeper'


Natter 54: Right here, dammit.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tiggy - Sep 26, 2007 6:16:32 am PDT #3071 of 10001
I do believe in killing the messenger, you know why? Because it sends a message. ~ Damon Salvatore

Does anyone think it's weird if little kids call grown-ups by their first names?

meaning? as in nieces or nephews not calling relatives "aunt ___" or "uncle ____"? i don't have a problem with it, but i can see where some people construe it as a respect thing.


tommyrot - Sep 26, 2007 6:18:26 am PDT #3072 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

as in nieces or nephews not calling relatives "aunt ___" or "uncle ____"?

Oh, that doesn't bother me.


brenda m - Sep 26, 2007 6:22:35 am PDT #3073 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

In the south it's more commonly Mr./Miss/Miz firstname, which I find kind of charming, actually.


Emily - Sep 26, 2007 6:24:31 am PDT #3074 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Totally depends. In many communities, Just Not Done, in others, Done. I grew up calling my teachers, at least, by their first names, but then we moved. And I Didn't anymore.


Jars - Sep 26, 2007 6:26:02 am PDT #3075 of 10001

but i can see where some people construe it as a respect thing.

That's what he says, that it can be seen as disrespectful, but to my mind a title like Mr or Mrs has swet fanny adams to do with respect, and I'd find it a little creepy if someone expected people to call them by their title.

I don't just mean aunts and uncles. Friends' parents, for instance. Over here you'd just call them by their first name, whereas Bloke STILL calls his friends' parents Mr. and Mrs.

I guess this one might just be a weird cultural difference that will only become relevant if Bloke and I ever have kids, which seeems unlikely.


Dana - Sep 26, 2007 6:29:19 am PDT #3076 of 10001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

We have a workshop thing on Friday, and they're bringing in lunch. Do I want a salad, or do I want a sandwich? Speficially, do I want the "Asiago Roast Beef Sandwich", the "Asian Sesame Chicken Salad", or the "Grilled Chicken Caesar Salad"?


tommyrot - Sep 26, 2007 6:31:36 am PDT #3077 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Asian Sesame Chicken Salad!


Jars - Sep 26, 2007 6:32:10 am PDT #3078 of 10001

Sesame chicken!


Aims - Sep 26, 2007 6:32:33 am PDT #3079 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

In our family it Was Done. You never addressed an "elder" by their first name unless instructed by that person to do so.


javachik - Sep 26, 2007 6:33:54 am PDT #3080 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

I went to a camp as a kid that got around the first name thing with a pretty good solution. All staff chose bird names, and kept them year after year. In time, I grew up and became staff.

I still answer to "NeNe".

I was raised to say "Mr." or "Mrs." until told otherwise by the elder.