You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love till it kills you both.

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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


aurelia - Sep 25, 2007 7:51:36 am PDT #2817 of 10001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

My paternal grandfather served in Europe in WWII. He was the company clerk because he knew how to type. A few years ago, going through my grandmother's things, I found some letters and photos he sent during that time. Some of the photos are of beautiful countryside but the notes on the back of the photos always have the location blacked out.

My maternal grandfather was in the army but I'm not sure if he was in WWII or Korea. He emphatically never wanted to talk about it. I suspect his experience was considerably more grim.

ION I have a car question. Yesterday I was informed that my timing chain is loose or stretched but was advised not to do anything about it. What might be the repercussions of that? Will I be okay to make a 9 hour drive in a couple of days?


P.M. Marc - Sep 25, 2007 7:52:19 am PDT #2818 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Sumi, I know that's true in a lot of the Seattle area cases.

A close friend's stepfather was born in a camp, and the local Japanese community would make sure it was spoken of in schools here, so it's something I think about a lot. (Especially over the last 5-6 years, unfortunately.)

I don't know if my MiL's Aunt was affected, because I keep thinking Aunt Toki was in Hawaii, but I've never actually asked.

One grandfather tried to serve in WWII, but wound up, due to his status as married (and pushing 40) with five children, being stuck in Victoria for the duration. The not-a-grandfather (it's... complicated, and I still don't fully understand, but my unhappily married grandmother wound up living with and having to answer to not one, but two whiny men) had served in WWI. My common law stepgrandfather served in WWII, and the shrapnel in his knee is what killed him, in a round about way. (Surgery for the knee in '98, took more pain pills than he should have, wound up with a bleeding ulcer and died.)

One of Gram's sisters went and did something in England during WWII, and wound up coming home carrying my Dad's cousin Liz. (Speaking of yesterday's topics, when Liz's mother married and had her younger brother Phil, I don't think Phil was told until he was an adult that Liz was his half sister by another man.)

Paul's grandfather was in WWII, which is how he met Paul's grandmother. He was one of the soldiers on the ground right after the bombings in Japan, which they think might be one of the reasons he developed an aggressive cancer later in life. (Though the cancer lost the race to kill him to the lung damage from working in cement.)


Glamcookie - Sep 25, 2007 7:54:46 am PDT #2819 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

All this family talk has me wanting to do some research. Anyone have a geneology site or sites that they like?


Connie Neil - Sep 25, 2007 7:56:42 am PDT #2820 of 10001
brillig

How much do you know, GC?


Glamcookie - Sep 25, 2007 7:57:37 am PDT #2821 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Not much at all. I know my father's parents and my mother's parents, but that's pretty much it.


Connie Neil - Sep 25, 2007 7:59:51 am PDT #2822 of 10001
brillig

www.familysearch.org

They're the genealogy portion of the Mormon Church, and they've got millions of things online.


P.M. Marc - Sep 25, 2007 8:00:00 am PDT #2823 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I usually start at familysearch.org.

The non-American aspects of my family make it slightly harder to track down the ones I know little about, but it's a good place to start.


tommyrot - Sep 25, 2007 8:00:30 am PDT #2824 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

ION I have a car question. Yesterday I was informed that my timing chain is loose or stretched but was advised not to do anything about it. What might be the repercussions of that? Will I be okay to make a 9 hour drive in a couple of days?

My boss says that diagnosis is really suspect. A loose or stretched timing belt or chain is a very serious thing. He thinks if someone is dumb enough to tell you not to worry about it they might not know what they're talking about. You might want to consider taking the car someplace else.


Connie Neil - Sep 25, 2007 8:01:01 am PDT #2825 of 10001
brillig

If you get farther into this and want to dig into more detailed information, genealogy is one of the other things the internet is for other than porn and pictures of cats.


aurelia - Sep 25, 2007 8:03:05 am PDT #2826 of 10001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

My owner's manual makes no mention of a timing belt, so I'm guessing that means it's a timing chain, right?

The SERVICE ENGINE SOON light has been going off and the diagnostic computer said the timing chain was bumping something to set it off.