I don't have a good segue into this but has anyone seen the new PETA ad featuring Alicia Silverstone (it's on youtube if you haven't seen it).

It's not really work safe. Alicia emerges out of a swimming pool totally nude (with a rear shot) and then lies on the edge of the pool and poses, there's a voice over where she's saying something about how she feels better being a vegetarian.

Over on the vegetarian forum I'm on I said I didn't like it because it objectifed women and it was sexist, pushing the idea of sex more than vegetarianism. However, there are a few people (men and women)who are saying that I'm over reacting and the ad has nothing to do with sex at all. There's no sexual imagery in the ad it's just showing a healthy body and what someone can look like if they go veg. But no sex

Am I over reacting? I see it and all I see is seduction and sex, I can't really see how it's just about showing what a healthy vegetarian can look like.

Is BaconSalt vegetarian? I miss bacon flavor in somethings and BACOs, while good on salads and baked potatoes aren't that great for cooking.

I cook brussel sprouts the same way Jessica does, I hadn't tried brussel sprouts in a long time then I saw the Barefoot Contessa cook them and she made them look good so I tried them.

P-C, I dunno whether to congratulate you or not. I'm glad you were able to be so honest about your feelings. Maybe a few times of being so blunt with your mother will help her to be more sensitive about the times when you are being more subtle, so that she doesn't have to get her feelings her while you are holding to your boundaries.

Also, if her feelings got hurt, I can promise you that there are a million ways to hurt a mother more seriously. She loses perspective: You are an awesome young man, bright, hardworking, and generous, and she forgets to appreciate that, at least when she is talking to you.

There's no sexual imagery in the ad it's just showing a healthy body and what someone can look like if they go veg.

I sure as hell never looked like that, even after 3 years of vegetarianism. If using Silverstone's body to say that was how you look after not eating meat, is either blatant lying or using sex to sell it.

I love everything about that recipe but the brussels sprouts.

I was thinking it was a recipe my BFF would love...if only she liked brussels sprouts. She doesn't dig most of the cruciferous veggies (I was going to say ALL but I just looked up a list of them and i know there are things on there she eats).

I love all vegetables.

P-C, I dunno whether to congratulate you or not. I'm glad you were able to be so honest about your feelings. Maybe a few times of being so blunt with your mother will help her to be more sensitive about the times when you are being more subtle, so that she doesn't have to get her feelings her while you are holding to your boundaries.

Also, if her feelings got hurt, I can promise you that there are a million ways to hurt a mother more seriously. She loses perspective: You are an awesome young man, bright, hardworking, and generous, and she forgets to appreciate that, at least when she is talking to you.

It's just...I feel so awful. All she wants to do is be a good mommy and come take care of me, and I know it would be bad for both of us because of how uncomfortable and defensive we can get around each other.

According to the website, BaconSalt is vegetarian and kosher. It's a wonderful magical condiment!

[eta: Oh, and I'm pretty sure Alicia Silverstone posing naked next to a pool counts as sexual imagery, however healthy and natural her hot vegetarian bod might be.]

I'm glad you were able to be so honest about your feelings. Maybe a few times of being so blunt with your mother will help her to be more sensitive about the times when you are being more subtle, so that she doesn't have to get her feelings her while you are holding to your boundaries.

What Andi said. P-C, I don't think you are a bad son. I'm glad that you were honest with her instead of having 18 painful horrible conversations where she wouldn't hear what you were (more subtly) saying.

I'm glad you stuck up for your boundaries. It is really, really hard though.

P-C don't think you had a choice. You've tried subtle. She doesn't get it when you try subtle - or even indirect. Actually you did have a choice: being blunt or spending the week with your mother. I think you made the right choice.