I am accustomed to a very LARGE social circle. And OMG scared by the concept of having to create one. It's been a while. And I worry that maybe it's easier to create one in a transient place like DC, or when you're 22. Erm.
I did it! Well, kinda. My social circle is def. much smaller than what it was, but it's still a good one. It is harder, but do-able. Especially if you keep up with the kinging.
I put a lot of stock by how people are dressed. I don't mean labels or any of that shit - people can look just as awesome in Target stuff as they can in Chanel - just how they are put together.
I am with Aimee on this. (Just not on the gauchos front.)
This comic is particularly appropriate, given this discussion: [link]
My knit gauchos were my painting pants all weekend. They are hereby ruined and will never be seen by the general public again.
Meara--you will have a whole new swath of girls to kiss! Which you totally will, I am sure.
By the way, we ordered this couch [link]
on Saturday. It will have mostly-olive-green-with-some-gold-flecks upholstery. It cost us $999 on sale, which is still more than I have ever spent on a piece of furniture before. We figure it is worth the investment, since with a dog and two cats, it will last us forever because we can get the cushions recovered. Still--a grand, whoa.
Heh. I was thinking of that very comic, Steph!
you will have a whole new swath of girls to kiss! Which you totally will, I am sure.
Oh, i'm definitely thinking of that part. :)
Took shower. No FedEX. BOO
My knit gauchos were my painting pants all weekend.
You say that as though you have more than the one pair of gouchos.
You say that as though you have more than the one pair of gouchos.
I do.
My two pair of twill gauchos are in fine wearing order. In fact, I'll be wearing them to work tomorrow.
In fact, I'll be wearing them to work tomorrow.
Both of them? I want pictures.
Changing at lunch?
How very Diana Ross of you.
I did it! Well, kinda. My social circle is def. much smaller than what it was, but it's still a good one. It is harder, but do-able.
I did too. After grad school. It took a while to build up a new group of friends (which ended up including 2 very old friends) but, jesus, 10 years along I'm doing pretty well for myself social circle-wise.
but I didn't have something like the kinging which has a built-in social network complete with fun events. Even if the first people you meet don't end up being long-term friends it will go a long way to helping you create a circle that you like, I bet.