{{{{Laura}}}} I'm so sorry about the loss of your friend.
{{{{omnis}}}} Much strength to your family.
re: rings. Z & I had matching blackworked silver rings in a Celtic knot design from Spirit Of The Red Horse (a mall shop), and we both wore them from the night we got engaged on. They were perfectly appropriate and very nice and worked within our budget. I would have hated to have a mined diamond, but I lurve created diamonds and rubies. So pretty! So affordable! So lacking in ethical dilemmas!
Saturday was awesome and Buffista-ful, what with breakfast with meara and dinner with Tep & the Boy, and the Bayistas at both. Unfortunately, Sunday mostly sucked ass, what with being sick. I did get to see off Tep and the Boy, which was nice. Also, M was very attentive (in between teasing me that I'd better not get him sick): he fetched water multiple times (even when I woke him up), brought me a kitty to cuddle, gave me good drugs, ordered in spicy Chinese so we could have a quiet dinner at his place, cleaned the Jacuzzi, ran the Jacuzzi, and boiled water to add to the Jacuzzi when his water heater crapped out at the halfway-full mark. So, that was good.
I am at work today. That is not of the good.