The next time you decide to stab me in the back... have the guts to do it to my face.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Natter 53: We could just avoid making tortured puns  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Cashmere - Aug 28, 2007 9:49:40 am PDT #7281 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

We're waiting....


lisah - Aug 28, 2007 9:51:29 am PDT #7282 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

yes, but what did you decide to wear?

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Plus jean shorts and totally sugar shiny red almost flats. And a new sparkly belt.


Tom Scola - Aug 28, 2007 9:51:59 am PDT #7283 of 10001
hwæt

Uhm, it went great. She asked me out, which took a whole lot of pressure off of me. (I was planning to ask her out, but she moved faster than I did).

I was calm throughout the whole date. We talked about ourselves, we have a whole lot in common; I talked about b.org and she seemed to get it. She mentioned she liked to watch Dark Angel for the eye-candy, and I told her I understood completely.

It all went perfectly until the end of the date, when I tried to get a little more emotional, and then the whole fight-or-flight response kicked in.


Dana - Aug 28, 2007 9:53:16 am PDT #7284 of 10001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

That sounds like a pretty damn good first date to me (though it's been a long time since I had one).


amych - Aug 28, 2007 9:56:39 am PDT #7285 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Sounds great! Go you!


Jesse - Aug 28, 2007 9:57:07 am PDT #7286 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

That sounds excellent, Tom!


Tom Scola - Aug 28, 2007 9:59:02 am PDT #7287 of 10001
hwæt

Of course, the only thing I'm dwelling on is how badly I may have screwed things up at the end.


Jesse - Aug 28, 2007 10:00:36 am PDT #7288 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

It all went perfectly until the end of the date, when I tried to get a little more emotional, and then the whole fight-or-flight response kicked in.

To clarify: I'm betting you neither bopped her one or literally ran away, right? In that case, it sounds excellent.

There is almost no brief weirdness that a nice phone call/email/other type interaction can't smooth over.


Sue - Aug 28, 2007 10:02:33 am PDT #7289 of 10001
hip deep in pie

Awesome Tom.

Fight or flight response is not that unusual at the end of a first date. Or at least, not for me.


Cashmere - Aug 28, 2007 10:04:54 am PDT #7290 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Fight or flight response is not that unusual at the end of a first date. Or at least, not for me.

Totally normal. Sounds like a good time, Scola.