Of course, the only thing I'm dwelling on is how badly I may have screwed things up at the end.
'Dear Diary, Today I was pompous and my sister was crazy.' 'Today, we were kidnapped by hill folk never to be seen again. It was the best day ever.'
Jayne ,'Safe'
Natter 53: We could just avoid making tortured puns
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Tom Scola - Aug 28, 2007 9:59:02 am PDT #7287 of 10001
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.
Jesse - Aug 28, 2007 10:00:36 am PDT #7288 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
It all went perfectly until the end of the date, when I tried to get a little more emotional, and then the whole fight-or-flight response kicked in.
To clarify: I'm betting you neither bopped her one or literally ran away, right? In that case, it sounds excellent.
There is almost no brief weirdness that a nice phone call/email/other type interaction can't smooth over.
Sue - Aug 28, 2007 10:02:33 am PDT #7289 of 10001
hip deep in pie
Awesome Tom.
Fight or flight response is not that unusual at the end of a first date. Or at least, not for me.
Cashmere - Aug 28, 2007 10:04:54 am PDT #7290 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
Fight or flight response is not that unusual at the end of a first date. Or at least, not for me.
Totally normal. Sounds like a good time, Scola.
Jesse - Aug 28, 2007 10:05:30 am PDT #7291 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
I'm usually OK by the end of the date, but I've never had a first date where I didn't think I was too sick to my stomach to make it there.
Lee - Aug 28, 2007 10:06:28 am PDT #7292 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.
Go Scola!
megan walker - Aug 28, 2007 10:07:20 am PDT #7293 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
Of course, the only thing I'm dwelling on is how badly I may have screwed things up at the end.
This? Also normal. I hope.
juliana - Aug 28, 2007 10:07:45 am PDT #7294 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
To clarify: I'm betting you neither bopped her one or literally ran away, right? In that case, it sounds excellent.
There is almost no brief weirdness that a nice phone call/email/other type interaction can't smooth over.
Exactly. And GO YOU!
JZ - Aug 28, 2007 10:08:21 am PDT #7295 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I know it's nigh impossible to stop stewing over what might have gone wrong, but please try. As a veteran of many, many first dates, I can't remember a single one where, if the rest went pretty well, I'd have ruled the guy out because of anything that happened at the very end. Even for people who do a lot of them, first dates are scary and stress-inducing, and it's easy to do something that you'll beat yourself up for afterwards. As long as the woman who asked you (which, yay! and this speaks well of her) isn't some kind of tightly wound perfectionist or scary Rules Girl, she'll still think well of you.
Also, my entire weekend is now retroactively much better, just knowing Tom Scola had a date on Saturday night.
hippocampus - Aug 28, 2007 10:09:16 am PDT #7296 of 10001
not your mom's socks.
Plus jean shorts and totally sugar shiny red almost flats. And a new sparkly belt.
awesome - I'm betting teh crush swooned.
Hooray for first dates! and dates of all kinds. and babysitters who allow some of us to have dates. need new babysitters
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go Scola!