Kaylee: You're nice, too. Mal: No, I'm not. I'm a mean old man.

'Serenity'


Natter 53: We could just avoid making tortured puns  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Aug 12, 2007 12:13:39 pm PDT #4205 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

My Annakitty sleeps with me, all snuggled up when it's cold, but right now when it's so hot she sleeps a way from my body but still where I can have a hand or arm next to her.

When she was young and I was in high school, I'd lie on my stomach to read and she'd curl up on my back and take a nap.

My parents always had cats that slept on the bed. Dad had two monster toms (Simon and Garfunkel) who would start off the night next to you and then in the morning I would wake up clinging to the edge and one of them would be sprawled out taking up most of the single bed.


brenda m - Aug 12, 2007 12:15:35 pm PDT #4206 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Online banking rocks so hard. It makes it so easy to set up structures that suit your own idiosyncrasies.

For me, aside from the 401k out of each check, my mid month check feeds a certain amount into my ING account. Then when each paycheck hits, I take whatever amount was still left in my checking from the last check and slide that over into a different interest-bearing savings. I don't stress if I need to dip into that every so often, but mostly I don't, or it's not a lot of money. When that account hits a certain dollar amount, I transfer most of it into the ING savings.

Total trips to bank: 0
Total checks mailed: 0
Total fees paid: 0

For me, this is way more effective than any more normal savings method. I've learned that being flexible with myself short circuits the "but what if I need that money" panic that otherwise can stand in the way of putting anything into savings.

All of that is in flux right now with the condo purchase stuff, of course, so we'll have to see if I need to make adjustments.


bon bon - Aug 12, 2007 12:19:03 pm PDT #4207 of 10001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

Yay for online banking! I don't have a complex savings strategy, but online automatic bill-pay has made such a difference to my quality of life, and probably my credit score.


Zenkitty - Aug 12, 2007 12:20:16 pm PDT #4208 of 10001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

What bon said.


brenda m - Aug 12, 2007 12:22:45 pm PDT #4209 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh god, yeah. No way I could have rehabbed my credit over the past five years, leaving me able to even think about doing what I am now, without online/auto bill pay.

My whole saving scheme just sort of developed organically - not sure I could have come up with something like that from the start.


Matt the Bruins fan - Aug 12, 2007 12:35:06 pm PDT #4210 of 10001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Well, this may be a glimmer of hope. I walked up while my downstairs neighbor was talking to one of the new owners and overheard that they aren't looking to go condo in the near future. If that's true and it's just a monthly rent increase we're looking at, I have a much better chance at remaining in my home. And possibly becoming a pauper, but at least I'll have a place I love to come home to after a hard evening's panhandling.

Also, they're water blasting the building exteriors today. Hasta la vista, festering windowsill squirrel nest!


sarameg - Aug 12, 2007 12:53:45 pm PDT #4211 of 10001

Brenda, the place is beautiful!

I'm home. Got all but my earrings put away (how much do I love coming HOME with a suitcase of clean laundry?! MUCH!) and have eaten and found the Devi. Sad to not be around the nephews. Played Transformers with D this morning (I've got those things whupped! Laughing in retrospect at all my brother's grad school friends who were stymied by them) and redraw the purple stickman on his forehead with a sharpie (don't ask. He's probably one of the few 4 year olds whose parents have given up the sharpie battle and draw on him themselves.) T woke up in a brilliant mood, so I got a lot of smiley happy baby time. Managed to get two long belly laughs out of him (he's just getting the hang of that now.) Love that. Then he fell asleep on me doing that painful, but adorable, pinchy hands thing. I have baby soothing powers!

Anyway, need to make tomorrow's lunch (blech) and go get my keys still.


Laura - Aug 12, 2007 12:57:15 pm PDT #4212 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Yay sarameg! I'm glad it was such a fun visit.

Brenda, the place looks great. Now I have to think of some business reason to head your way and raise a glass with you on that deck.


Steph L. - Aug 12, 2007 12:58:52 pm PDT #4213 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

My only ish? The 1 week hold time on deposits.

Yeah, I can't see using them as my primary account for just that reason

I have an HSBC online savings account for my emergency fund, and I really dig the 5.05% APY. But yeah, there's a reason it's not my primary (i.e., rent/bills/food/comics) account — I need to access a large portion of my income quickly.

Also, online bill-pay is an invention that ranks right up there with pay-at-the-pump gas pumps in terms of Oh My God How I Love You So.

t edit Oh! Another Holy Grail invention is one I encountered for the first time today: Lane Bryant's new Right Fit jeans. Oh. My. God. Seriously, women who are size 14 and up, get thee to a Lane Bryant.

The jeans come in 3 different shapes, based on your waist-to-hip ratio, and they are fucking AMAZING. I bought a pair today, and they fit so well that I almost cried. I have a 10-inch waist-to-hip differential, so buying jeans has always been a bitch. Either they fit in the waist but nowhere else — which isn't viable — or they fit in the hips/thighs, and the waist gaps horribly. But these? These are a marvel.


amych - Aug 12, 2007 1:02:51 pm PDT #4214 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Also, online bill-pay is an invention that ranks right up there with pay-at-the-pump gas pumps in terms of Oh My God How I Love You So.

It's beyond Oh My God How I Love You So and into the territory of Oh My God I Couldn't Live Without. Just like the squeeze bottles that are designed so you squeeze things out of the bottom, but with the advantage of saving my uncreditworthy ass.