Austin, I grabbed your quote merely as representative.

I think you were right to use it. I was interchanging the terms incorrectly. I would agree with your definitions. I do think that that particular Darla/Angel scene was maybe violent sex in theory, but was sexualized violence in application. Showing a beautiful, young, human-looking woman being thrown through glass and enjoying it as foreplay (despite knowing she is a vampire and could handle it), strikes me as the latter. She was filmed in beautiful young woman mode, not vampire demon mode. I love the show, that scene just always bothered me.

And talking about the impala's bench seats takes me to a completely different place. One of good and right and true sex. It is the land of happy.

Well, I certainly didn't create the vid, and I've only watched it twice. So this is IMHO, cutting and pasting from upthread:

Here's a breakdown of tropes I see in the vid:

• Evil women, with or without a sexual component to their evilness (Woman in White, Crossroads demon, Meg)

I'd have to watch it again to see if I think sexual violence should be added to that list.

Glad the definitions seem clear to people who aren't in my head.

that particular Darla/Angel scene was maybe violent sex in theory, but was sexualized violence in application.

I think this is a good example of overlapping areas - sexualized violence and violent sex. I would still say not sexual violence, but even that could be debated. Excellent point that Darla was filmed in woman mode, not vampire mode. Now I want to rewatch that scene and pay attention to the camera angles and such.

Wow. I haven't posted this prolifically on Buffistas in YEARS. Wow.

eta - and I've killed the thread. FTW!

etaa - juliana, looking forward to hearing your reaction on the vid. i think you'll like it, for values of like that include "deeply disturbed."

You haven't killed the thread! I just decided Working At Home included popping in a DVD and watching Route 666.

RUN, MR ROBINSON!!! Run!!!

Nooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ah, the sweet smell of cheese.

Oh, cranky Sam.

You know, she's wooden, but she's very pretty.

juliana, be warned that the vid will possibly earworm you. I never thought I'd contemplate buying that song (or heck, anything by that performer) off of iTunes, but I can't get it out of my head.

I just decided Working At Home included popping in a DVD and watching Route 666.

Well, shit, since I decided Working at Work involved extensive posting in this thread, that sounds fair.

sisabet's post about the vid. (she's a co-creator)

Jilli, I've been earwormed too, but I actually love that song. Put it on my bestest mix tape ever, the one that chronicled a seriously fucked up relationship and the aftermath. "Violet" ended Side One. Oh, mix tapes.

I love that song, too.

My Working at Home today has included reading here, reading porn, and watching reruns of Top Chef. Also, possibly, writing a little porn.

My boss is very understanding.

smonster, I love that you're here! And I think that's a great list of definitions.

Jilli, I've been earwormed too, but I actually love that song.

I actually really like that song, and some other stuff off that album. I just have issues with Courtney Love.

If they are the ones to finally use the holy water pistols they will win. Just win.

Not if they have a comparative religion consultant on the payroll. IIRC, according to Roman Catholic doctrine holy water has to be transported in vials especially consecrated for the purpose or it deconsecrates itself upon being removed from the font and touching anything else. They'd be squirting normal tap water. Communion wine, however, might theoretically retain its holiness.

Until Dean drank it, anyway.