Purple Frog!

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Happy Birthday Dana!

Spent the weekend at the Washington Folk Festival. Yes, even though it rained a lot Sunday we were there.(All the venues were covered)

Did anyone mention that in some states to get a divorce you have to be separated for a year (NY)? I don't think California is one of those, just pointing out that being separated does not mean that someone is not doing all they can to end the marriage.

Yeah, that part I'm good with. Relieved.

I've been neglecting friends who need me, though. (head issues that need to clear up, because I'm ragey and mean and shouldn't be allowed near humans)

Visiting the babies was very calming and joyful, though. They're just working so hard at the thriving thing. It's hard not to get caught up in that energy.

Did anyone mention that in some states to get a divorce you have to be separated for a year (NY)?

Because you might change your mind? What's the rationale behind making that official?

Because you might change your mind? What's the rationale behind making that official?

Most states want marriages to be hard to end, because they are in the public interest. States like Nevada have no-fault divorces, and that's where people go to get "quickie divorces."

ET fix mistake about no-fault divorces.

Their current res is West Virginia, bon.

I like the guy, genuinely enough. Weirdly, part of it is how much respect goes into talking about his wife. They were married for 13 years, her dream job is in WV, his is here. They tried for a long time before they just sort of petered out. So there isn't any weird animosity, no cheating, no huge fights...the marraige just sort of passed away. So there's a mournful quality to him, not anger.

Of course, I only hear his perspective. It's hard to not believe it, though, when he speaks highly of her and misses her. It seems terribly sad, to me.

My ex and I were like that, kind of faded out due to our lives and family obligations being in two very distant locales. It wasn't really sad for us though, mainly just well-wishes.

Did anyone mention that in some states to get a divorce you have to be separated for a year (NY)?

In Virginia, I think that it's 6 months, a year if you have children. But, it's been a long time since I took the bar, so it might have been 1 year/2year

Most states want marriages to be hard to end, because they are in the public interest.

I have what may be an anarchist bent, and would love to think that adults know when they're done. Then again, Paris Hilton sure can afford someone to drive her around when she's hammered, so what I'd like to think isn't as informed by the real world as it could be.

Since marriages that should be over can't be in the public interest. I guess it makes sense for the state to just increase the level of difficulty and see who still bothers--I'm assuming the bad marriages that stay are less of a negative than the ones that could be saved.

My finger lesion hurts.

Which reminds me, that one of the krav students rebelled against the 2007 rule that you had to wear official krav gear to class. He (law student) said it was a breach of contract to institute that willy nilly. I won't let him into my classes because he decided to take a stand--somewhat like the state, I think it's in the public interest for people to consider their stands carefully and not think they can back out of them immediately as it suits.

I think I'm the only instructor who's hardlining him on this, but still. Illegal? Really? I'd think that memberships must have standard language in them to allow the company to tweak as they went along. I don't remember what our contracts look like, but it seems weird.