This weekend I played with Grace and Noah.

I also made s'mores with Married Neighbor Man.

Conversation:

Me: Um, I flirt with you a lot. I'm sorry if anything I said made you uncomfortable.

MNM: I'm not uncomfortable. Do you feel bad because I'm married?

Me: Well, yeah. I'm going to go, now.

MNM: reaching out to hug me in a consoley-please-don't-feel-bad-it's-okay sort of way as I'm halfway out the door G'night darlin'.

Louis, this could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship.

I have enough friends. But now I have significantly less guilt.

I meant actual friendship, for what it's worth. I couldn't handle dating someone who was separated, either. I think you did what you needed to do, and did it well.

Purple Frog!

Timelies all!

Happy Birthday Dana!

Spent the weekend at the Washington Folk Festival. Yes, even though it rained a lot Sunday we were there.(All the venues were covered)

Did anyone mention that in some states to get a divorce you have to be separated for a year (NY)? I don't think California is one of those, just pointing out that being separated does not mean that someone is not doing all they can to end the marriage.

Yeah, that part I'm good with. Relieved.

I've been neglecting friends who need me, though. (head issues that need to clear up, because I'm ragey and mean and shouldn't be allowed near humans)

Visiting the babies was very calming and joyful, though. They're just working so hard at the thriving thing. It's hard not to get caught up in that energy.

Did anyone mention that in some states to get a divorce you have to be separated for a year (NY)?

Because you might change your mind? What's the rationale behind making that official?

Because you might change your mind? What's the rationale behind making that official?

Most states want marriages to be hard to end, because they are in the public interest. States like Nevada have no-fault divorces, and that's where people go to get "quickie divorces."

ET fix mistake about no-fault divorces.